What happened to the person who broke your heart?

Well she's got a kid now. She became a singlemom courtesy of another guy. That's the reason of our breakup. We are ok now and we're civil about it. It took me months or more than i year to recover. I really felt terrible about it. She'll be home by June but i don't know if i'm going to meet her.

well he got what he wanted anyway. he's been married a bunch of times, still drinks,got stuck up in n.y.state w/a child to raise by himself. he deserved that for sure. he sure didn't look after his first children. he & i didn't have any. i taled to him via e-mail for awhile but we couldn't even get along there. lol.it took me a long time to get over him but thank god i have.

Well in my case it was my first wife. Married for 37 years she decided that someone she met on the internet was much more to her liking and proceeded to move out. In a way I was lucky. This was not the first time she had cheated but it had happened back when we first married. I didn't find out about it until years later. It like to broke my heart as I really trusted her up to that point. I went to see a crises counselor and after a few meetings with her came to the point I could except it and we continued on. However due to life changes it happened again. This time I divorced her. It really didn't take me that long to get over it. I think because I had been through that before. Of course Mr. wonderful didn't turn out to be so wonderful and after a few years of putting up with him she now lives alone. We are friends again as we have two children together and 4 grandchildren. I married again but within about 5 years she passed away with a heart attack. That was very difficult because she didn't leave because she wanted to. I am however very happy to say I am married again to a wonderful woman whom I love dearly. If you don't let the bad things in life take you over you can once again be happy. You just have to know you can and work toward it.

There were actually 3 guys who broke my heart and I hadn't seen in years until last summer when I got to reconnect with all 3 of them for different reasons. I'm very happy to say that they all had changed so drastically that I no longer carry a torch for any of them. One has changed in appearance 100% and not to the good either, another has aged and not as well as I have and the third just turned out to be a total jerk. Didn't take me long to get over them after all these years.

i will never forget her, wish she remains happy in her life. But i wouldn't like to meet her now, especially when she's with her husband. Maybe sometime in future, when i feel that i can face her as any normal person, i shall meet her. Its taken a really long time for me to recover. the wounds wont heal easily either. what's your story laydee??

Only God knows.I have so many blessings so I don't think about him anymore

Definitely completely recovered, what we had is in the past, but our friendship still remains. It just wasn't meant to be and even though I was very hurt, it did take me a while to get over him, but I did. To this day we keep in touch online and are good friends.

I want him to be happy. And I think he is but that he has his own issues to deal with. I havent completely recovered from the heartbreak, but I am okay with it if that makes any sense. I was very much in love with him and I dont think that would ever go away.

he lives in kennesaw, ga. w/his wife. i think he got what he deserved if he's telling the truth about his marriage. who knows. he claims to be niserable, i hope he is. i will never forget him & the good times.

I think she is getting *****d every day from her other friends. She dumped me just for money and I don't think she is worth running after her. I left her and I don't know where she is right now!

yes i guess he deserve the girl. though my ex-bf hurt me a lot for getting a girl pregnant. and i know he deserve it. the girl left him and i know he can relate to what i feel before. we've meet after a year we work in the same publishing house. and i guess im fully recovered now from all the hurt and pains. It takes two years for me to forget all the heartaches.

Actually, nobody has ever broken my heart so bad. So far, I was the one who broke somebody's heart because I just felt like it was wrong for us to pursue such relationship. My heart was broken by the situation but not by someone. At present he's had two girlfriends after courting me (and didn't progress into a relationship). I think they're happy. Sometimes, I just don't want to see their friendster pics because it makes me jealous. LOL. Even if I have a boyfriend that I love at present. I guess you just don't forget past loves right away.

One of the guys who broke my heart is now in Florida, and the rest of the guys who broke my heart, I haven't seen in years, and don't plan on contacting any of them. I've moved on with my life...it wasn't easy, I'll give you that, but it's do-able.

I had 2 girls who had broken my heart. To forget the 1st one, it took me a close to an year. Later she again added me on yahoo messenger and we started speaking for a while. But all of a sudden she vanished. The 2nd one was more hurting. After trusting her more than myself, she broke my trust completely. I had shared each n every secret of my life with her. I'm on the verge of recovering from my 2nd heart break.....