to love or be loved???

both. I want to love and be loved in return. Love is a two way street.

I'd prefer being loved. It's a lot more easier learning how to love someone who loves you back rather thank making someone fall for you. You'd not only make yourself suffer, you're the one who's breaking your own heart.

to love or be loved ,that's a question. when u chose "be loved" u also choose passivity. if u can accept his/her attention, u will feel happy. on the countraty, u will be said. ur happiness is in other's hand. is this a good thing ? but if u choose "to love" it's also in a dilemma. love somebody move him/her, and also let he/she love u .if the course rool ur hoop,that's good. but if u can move him/her,and also donot want to give up,u must face a loop, be innjured,cure yourself,and still smile at him/her.that's really not a good thing. so in my view, love or be loved,maybe it is a question without any answer. u susconsciously choose one at the moment. maybe u will never change, maybe u will change in a instant , which one is right? only u can tell urself. when it comes to u ,i believe u will have ur choise. no matter which one u chose, if u can feel love ,u can be happy,that's enough . love should bring u more happiness.....

wen u show love u get back love in return so show love it will pay off

Can i say both. To love someone is important but you need to be loved also. It is very hard to face your life alone and nobody is going to take care of you if you decided to be alone. But this is your discretion, if you think you can be ok being alone rather than with someone who would give you headache at times, then it is all up to you. Before i have a landlady who would say better to love, than to not loved someone at all. They are old maids now, and marrying is too late for them since they grow old already. And they reminded us about this is life. There will be struggles in a marriage life, but at least if you think you are happy with that, then its ok, you can be taken cared of the person you chose and the kids you will have too. Happy Mylotting!