would you support your best friend even if you thought that they was wrong
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
November 10, 2006 3:54pm CST
would you support your friend on something or a decision that they have made but you dont think that it is right or you just dont agree with it?
3 responses
@wildpvcgal (1085)
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13 Nov 06
Always, I would back her up as she would do the same for me. Thats just with my best friend not everyone else. xx
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
i feel exactly the same way, i have been friends with my best bud for just over 20 years and i may not agree with her on some of her decisions but at the end of the day i will always support her
thanks for your comment
@Amanda_NZ (125)
• Lexington, North Carolina
14 Nov 06
My friend would have my support of friendship, yet I would not support her on her decision. We would agree to disagree and I believe this is still a healthy friendship to have, that way each other has the free choice. You cannot agree to everything that another does, similar to spouses where you differ. You have to find a compromise with actions of each other and know that love and friendship is still working within your friendship.
I do not reckon you are doing each other any favours by expecting friends to go along with a decision or action that the other is uncomfortable with as that can lead to dictatorship, control and a powerstruggle.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
i totally agree with that, i think that you are right that is also a healthy friendship to have, I may not agree with what my friend has chosen and i do tell her how i feel but at the end of the day nothing is worth falling out over, it is is great to agree to disagree
thanks for your comment
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
that is another thing that shows good sign of friendship is feeling that you can say what you feel. and be open with one another
thanks for your comment
@hagilagina (38)
• United States
14 Nov 06
iguess im the only guy to respond to this but i would tell them what i feel but that i do back them up
@randommusicgirl (80)
• Philippines
14 Nov 06
I agree. I know they would do the same if I were in their case.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
that is a wonderfull thing called friendship
thanks for your comment