Friends forever or Never Friends?
By TheDreamer18
@TheDreamer18 (29)
United States
March 23, 2009 2:48pm CST
So say you had this friend that you became very close with. So close that you were practically sisters. You know, the type of friendship where you finish each other sentences and you pretty much live at each others houses and you do EVERYTHING together. Well eventually things change and you and your friend both change and drift apart. and for you this hurts alot, its like losing your other half. so heres the question: if you could change the past would you stop yourself from being friends with this person to avoid the being hurt?
5 responses
@vickycity (154)
• China
24 Mar 09
I will choose friends forever.
if I have a friend like a part of myself/
I will do everything to save this friendship.
It's very hard to seek a friend like a part of myself.
I will never give up/
@lvjunjie (80)
• China
24 Mar 09
as a famous saying that a good friend is your best guide.when you feel a low spirit ,she or he give you happy hand .such things happened and then you went though it ,you would appreciate them .they are always stand by your side .
so i think friens can be forever.
@russeka (34)
• Australia
24 Mar 09
There is no way that i would change the past. i would never have the good times to look back on then. i would also wonder then if we never meet would i have found somebody else to fill that role and would it have been the same as this person.
and then if it was a different person they could still the same to me again. and then someone else and someone else. so it just keeps going around in a circle really. the circle of life or friendship really
the past is the past and maybe should be left like that, without it we would never be who we are today. we can't change it, but we should be thankful that we can look back to it and remember...
@bobbyjoe23 (52)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Life is too short to look to the past, life goes on...
They say the only thing permanent in this world is change,
it's true and real.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
23 Mar 09
first of the reason for moving apart is important at this point. if we people moved apart because she was jealous of my success or she stabbed me in my back or something such happened then in such a case if i go back to the past then i would like to keep this person at bay, because a person who has a wrong intention cannot have a simultaneous good intention. it could be possible that many a times in the past she has done some kind of harm that went unrealised just because of blind faith and affection.
now, if the moving apart is not because of a bad deed or just because of misunderstandings etc. then i would not lt the past change. life gifts its share of anguish to all. so if i have to part with a good friend in the future, it would be my pleasure to life the happy prsent with her.
