Should men help?
By lynnchua
@lynnchua (3412)
Singapore
7 responses
@bloglog (628)
• Singapore
24 Mar 09
I believe in marriage, everything should be shared between both husband and wife. Leaving the women to do all the house job should not be the case. What's more, doing some cooking together may also help in getting closer and improve in the relationship. This is another task which both can do together.
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@sonajoseph (175)
• India
24 Mar 09
i like qa husbund who shares home works together . i am working as a nurse so i dont gett enogh time to do all work alone so he is healping me . he is also a nurse in my hospital so we shares work .. happy myllotting ..
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@writer44 (58)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Good evening, my husband offers to help do the housework, but if he didn't I would still feel comfortable approaching him about, it knowing he wouldn't mind.
Since I work and go to college from home and he works elsewhere, I can easily do it over the course of the day myself. His work is a whole lot tougher than mine and I love to take care of him and spoil him anyway.
I think that good communication is the answer to these problems in the home. Being apprehensive about asking probably means don't bother asking in the first place.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Marriage should be a give and take. To be honest if she works too then all household chorse, cleaning, laundry, cooking should be shared. Some wifes don't work outside the home, but that still doesn't mean that it should all fall in her lap.
I guess it really depends on the couple and the agreement they have between the two of them. As long as they are both happy with their chorse, shared or not, then it's their relationship.
As for me? I do a lot of cooking (get outta my way) and a lot of outside, yard work stuff, so laundry is where he picks up the slack.