is loving a girl older to you wrong?????????????

@parthu28 (498)
India
March 24, 2009 12:08am CST
hey there....i have s small problem here.......... i love a girl who is 10 months elder to me..or if you see academically she is an year older to me.people around always try o tell me that we are not supposed to love girls older to us..is it so?????????? i don't understand why....we here have a very happy relationship........none of us has a problem.both of us feel that our love is only what matters........ what do you say about it???????? is it wrong????????
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7 responses
keyshiabaige
@keyshiabaige (3)
• Trinidad And Tobago
26 Mar 09
Age does not matter because i am with someone way older than me and people says the same things but i just ignore them cause i the person i treating u the right way thats all u need to focus on because u might end up leaving out that person and go with someone who worse off.Stick with that person and dont break up because of what people say!
wanglu1919
@wanglu1919 (119)
• China
25 Mar 09
One year is not a problem, I think. True love can go through the hoops. Whatever other people say , just make sure that you love her and want to be with her, one year,ten years ,that's OK.@_@ I wish your love will have a bright future!@_@
darksorrow
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
24 Mar 09
I don't see anything wrong in it. I think you loved her by not looking at her age. Ignore others. They don't understand it. And will say what goes common. It is not right to love a girl who is older than you. What proves it. They don't have feeling that's why they don't understand. If you and she both are happy with it then go on. Why holding back for the world. Does the world matter in love?
srganesh
@srganesh (6340)
• India
24 Mar 09
If both of you have declared your love,then it is okay and you need not worry about the others opinion.The question is,whether both of your families are going to accept this or not.If they deny,are you ready to take your life in your hands?Can you support yourself economically,if your families left you?Find answers for these and go ahead.Love has no age bar!Mahatma Gandhi and Sachin Tendulkar are good examples to quote.Cheers!
taki_takaishi
@taki_takaishi (1279)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
it is not wrong. because age doesn't matter when it comes to love. It will only be wrong if that woman is commited or has someone else in mind. Because that is already cheating and you will just get hurt. Just be sure to check everything first so that you won't be broken hearted.
luvmysons
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Age shouldnt matter.. My husband is 6 years older than me.. As long as the 2 people are in love it shouldnt matter.. Alot of people may have comments but there not in the relationship to see the love.. So it is certainly not wrong to love an older woman.. Good lUck to you
annalou123
@annalou123 (34)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
age doesn't matter. if you really love each other, age is not an issue of having a good relationship that will last forever. women are just typically more advance in terms of mental development, we tend to be more mature than men. and that looks awkward for others. i think you and your partner's age difference is not noticeable because it's just 10 months. don't worry about it. the important thing is you love each other.