what do u think about girls making the first move??
By franticdog
@franticdog (94)
Philippines
March 24, 2009 2:00am CST
whether it's her telling the guy she likes/loves him..leaning to him first or kissing him first, what are your thoughts on a girl making the first move? is it really turn off or actually sexy for some guys? girls, would u dare do the first move? guys, would you like a girl if he does the first move?
6 responses
@michiko15carlo (161)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
my bf said he find it sexy when i do the first move! hahahha he likes it when i become aggressive and dominant! i dont know why!
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
yeah.. just as long as you know where to position yourself and you know your limitations.. it's quite fun too actually.. you sometimes feel the challenge guys want in girls sometimes.. lol
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
yes i have the same response from my bf too.. like he did not expect it and i know men find a woman's confidence to be reallly sexy.. ;)
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
in a relationship, there is no such rule that only men have the rights to make the initiative on making a move to a woman that he likes, it doesn't follow any gender in that manner so what i think about women making the initiative is alright.
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
and honestly speaking my fiancee made the first move, and i was really surprised with that...from just an ordinary friends to a deeper relationship haha 
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
yeah, this is a new generation and what a man can do, a woman can also do (except for peeing all at the same time on one basin.. lol!) as long as we know our limitations right? thanks!:)
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
24 Mar 09
Honestly speaking being a lady, I would never ever think of doing this as some privileges are for men and this proposing is something better if done by a man.
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
well, if by proposing you mean proposing for a marriage then yeah, i agree a 100% that it should be a guy's job.. :D although my bf said i proposed to him when i said "i want us to get married" in one of our conversations when it was never my intention to propose.. lol.. but i respect your opinion.. ;D
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
24 Mar 09
I don't find anything wrong with it at all. I would only be interested to know that the feelings are true and not made up with an ulteriror motive in mind. That would be the only doubt that would cross my mind. It would be quite unusaual.
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
well, kinda like a girl trying to find out if a guy's intention for making the first move is true, right? but just so you know, it really takes a lot of guts for a girl to do the first move, and we wouldn't dare fool around just for the sake of it.. lol :)
@maezee (41988)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Well, I'm not a guy, so I probably shouldn't be answering this question, but from a girl's point of view..Why not? I don't see the problem, unless you're masochistic or you like doing things in the "traditional" sense. But I think it's fine, why not? With the increased popularity of feminism, this is bound to happen. I personally don't do it, it feels a little weird to me - but to the girls who feel confident enough to make the first move - more power to 'em! 
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
well, i'd like to believe in most of my relationships i was the one who made the first move.. like, either i was the one who said i liked them first or i did kiss them.. like, for me it's really frustrating to wait for the guy to move when you really feel that they like you.. right? :)
@mrrome (73)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
In my own point of view its alright for a girl to make the first move, as long as her femininity stays intact. A cute stuff like a sweet gesture of "can't fall asleep last night cause my mind keep thinking about you" things just like that. It is the key to open a relationship, not just saying "I love you yah know!" Let just say let the guy obiously know, not just jump at him and saying your emotion. You could always think about the things you want to do in reverse. If a guy approach you and tell you I love you right away... You might run fast ha, ha! So be gentle! Lol!!! Well actually Guy like a girl who flirt on them in a sweet manner. they don't want to be overpowered it is their right to make the moves you just letting them know that your inviting them to make it.
@franticdog (94)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
that's a good one.. well, let's just say that most of the guys linked to me are the "shy" ones and i admit i really am aggressive.. but obviously i will not say i love u to a guy whom first i dont love, and second will react negatively.. and yeah i do get what u mean by as long as femininity still in tact and guys not liking to be overpowered.. they still have their pride eh.. :)
