Net friend saying loves me lot? she wanna marry me
By nagasubbarao
@nagasubbarao (215)
India
March 24, 2009 5:50am CST
guy i am regular chatting guy in net, i found a nice gal in one chat room and exchanged the mobile numbers. later we became so close and chatting on mobile countless time. we both are became very close friends because our minds and thoughs equal and same. i know about she got already married and with children. One day she suddenly told me she got the feelings on me and said she loves me. i was dumb on that time. later i told her its just an attraction. she stopped calling me and ignoring all of calls. i am not understanding the situation. why she suddenly she did that.
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4 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
24 Mar 09
Hello nagasubbarao! Don't worry about it too much. I mean, like what you said, it's only nothing for you and that you treat her as your siblings which you share the same interests with. Maybe she perceived it differently and that she thought you really like her. It's ok to build love through the internet, but like what you said she's married and have children. That's the problem there. Better not to contact her anymore and it's better that she stops talking to you.
@nagasubbarao (215)
• India
24 Mar 09
Thank you for your suggestions, But i really like her, I know her she is a take carer, lovable person. I try to ignore her but i am thinking whether it is possible to me or not.
@sevakuduuuuu (131)
• India
24 Mar 09
hi subbu,
A Small Suggestion to u.. U have already posted your question for good suggestion but we are telling that those are not good plz wait for god's decision then success is yours.
Be alert my boy....
Regards
RK
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
24 Mar 09
Please do not see too much into it, when you did not serve her purpose, she probably dumped you, always believe that whatever the great God does to you - "It is always for the best". You will come to terms soon.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
24 Mar 09
very well said deepak..I salute you..
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@nagasubbarao (215)
• India
24 Mar 09
Deepak, i am very loyal in relation ships. But i dont know how she suddenly told that to me. I thinking my side what i did the mistake to get that type of attraction to her. i am sleepless for several days.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
It is very easy to think that one is in love with another on the internet. I think that she is really looking for someone to marry and thought that might be you. When you turned her down I think she just turned her attention on someone else. Cheers!!
@j47lee (740)
• Canada
25 Mar 09
Virtual and real life is different man... if she is already married... i dont think you should start an affair that is sooo wrong... and first thing are you ready to be a father to her children? and how can you love someone you havent ever met in real life.. i mean as in dating... u know there are women out there... who just wants some guy to support them no matter what kind of guy they get... as long as they have money to support them... I knew a guy who used to work with me before.. he was around 45 + yrs at least.. and he wasnt great looking and i think had problems in the head.. then once in a coffee shop he met a girl.. who was like around early 30s...she chat up with him.. and he fell in love with her... and married her... later he finds out she has a kid back in China.. and she never told him that....also.. the woman was on holiday to Toronto..and just wanted to get an easy ticket to Canada.. but unfortunately for her.. this guy had an ex wife.. and well.. he was still paying the ex wife.. so he couldnt sponsor her...
