Why many people show interests to solve other problems but not his?

India
March 24, 2009 5:59am CST
Hi, I have one doubt, why majority of people tries to solve other problems with proper care but fails to solve his problems. I am also falls in same category. I am ready to help others, but I will not show interest to solve my problems. If need your suggestions, so that I will think on those lines to improve.....Thanks for your time...
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
24 Mar 09
Because we see our problems with already built up ideas and we can't see the basic things immediately.In case of others,we easily see what the underlying fact is and we can give better solutions.In short,we approach our problems emotionally and with others problems we take no sides.Cheers!
• India
24 Mar 09
wow, great response....now it is very clear to me...Thanks for your time....Cheers....
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@Boofybutt (316)
• United States
24 Mar 09
I usually try to solve other peoples' problems because I think that they are worse than mine. I feel like, if I'm trying to solve my own problem, then I'm not going to be helping anybody but myself. On top of that, I've also found that helping other people with theirs has given me some ideas on how to fix my problems. I hope that whatever your problem is, it gets better soon. Have a Wonderful Day!!!!!!
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• Canada
29 Mar 09
I think that people take interest in other people's problems while ignoring their own, as a way to escape from, or deny their own problems. I think that they figure that if they are right on about someone else's problems (or atleast act like they are right ona bout them) the other problems will get more attention, and their own will be ignored or forgotten.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Mar 09
I think we are much more curious in others' life than our own. It also seems easier to solve problems of others rather than our own. It is human tendency to indulge in others' way.
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