too shy to be more confident ....
By cuttyrish
@cuttyrish (2667)
United States
March 24, 2009 2:58pm CST
I'm 19 years old, and i am still shy to wear a bit makeup in school, or to even wear my nice / girly clothes.. every time i wear them, i always get some comments, that they look good on me, and that i should wear styles like that always, and people keep staring me.. i am not use to people staring at me.. i just want to wear them, but i do not want them staring at me, even though the style is just simple...what should i do to overcome this shyness, or this insecurity?
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2 responses
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
Hi cuttyrish! I think the reason why people are staring at you is because you really look good on those clothes you are wearing and that you are simply attractive my dear. Be confident and be comfortable of being an attractive person. That is surely a blessing. Accept your gift of being beautiful dear. Look at the mirror and be proud of how you look and how beautiful you are becoming. You are 19 and you are becoming a lady. Enjoy being a woman.
Take care and blessings to you.
lovelots..faith
@Shawtyshara (105)
•
24 Mar 09
Aawww!
I'm also a really shy person.
Gotta really hate those people that just keep staring! Just start to feel so paranoid xD
But I think there just looking at you because your looking HOTT waheyy ;)
It might be because you look really different and they think you look attractive.
Trussttt!!!!! If people are saying you look nice, You look nice (:
Well, I havn't really over come my shyness either =[
Hmm I used to be afraid to go on the bus on my own and ask for my own ticket xD
The only way you can overcome it is if you keep trying. I started to try and take the bus on my own and I was scared, but I then started geting used to it, and I go on the bus and don't even think about it. I used to be afraid to go in take away shops and ask for my order.
Try not to worry about the people who are looking at you. Wear your girly clothes every other day, you will start to feel much more comfortable in them..
I never wore skirts, but now I do because I always kept wearing them (only because they helped to make my love handles look smaller, haha)
Awww you shouldn't be shy to wear make up. Just put a bit of mascara on everyday. It would make your eyes look bigger (:
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@cuttyrish (2667)
• United States
24 Mar 09
i guess i would keep trying and be strong...nice tip, and i think this would really help me. thanks for your response..
