Do You Think This Is Bad Of My Boyfriend?
By Shawtyshara
@Shawtyshara (105)
March 24, 2009 4:16pm CST
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 16 months now and for most of this we hardly go out and spend a proper time together and just talk. Except when in the car and well...when we are away from a computer.
What we do when we spend our time together is that I go round his house and we spend all day together, but he's on his computer, paying games, while i'm either sitting next to him watching tv, cuddling him from behind or sitting at the desk behind him on my laptop.
Once he even forgot I was with him because I was queit =/
I've spoken to him ALOT about him playing his games too much! He goes sleep early hours of the morning, wakes up lake, and just doesn't bother to go to college and goes on his computer and play games instead.
What is your opinion on this?
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5 responses
@sambarwell (173)
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24 Mar 09
I know how you feel, my girlfriend does this to me, except she tries to see me less. But at one point she just sat on her laptop, whilst I was trying to have my arms around her. Then when I look over at the TV I get told off. Which is now why our relationship is now on threads. I see her very little and want quality time with her, but she doesn't.
I do hope it works out for you, and hopefully he see more in you than computer games and things.
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@Shawtyshara (105)
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24 Mar 09
Awww!
Damn, didn't think girls would be like that xD
and she tries to see you lesss!! :O
Oh now thats horrible! Something sure is fishy.
How long you been together?
Maybe she is getting bored =/
Well if she is telling you off because you are watching TV, I suppose that shows that she likes to have your attention.
Hmm, Maybe she is doing all that to actully get your attention even more :o And with the seeing less bit, maybe she likes to hear you say "no be with me" kind of thing xD
@sambarwell (173)
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24 Mar 09
I don't think its borem for her, its more she wants me as a very little part of her life. I've just looked at your profile and you seam so nice, it's hard to think your boyfriend is like this towards you.
@Shawtyshara (105)
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25 Mar 09
Ohh dammnn
I don't think she loves you as much as she used to any more =/
Maybe she secretly likes some one else.
Talk to herr hehe.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Mar 09
he shoudl do more with you well you guys are together. go out to a movie or dinner. i would get bored with that stuff.
@Shawtyshara (105)
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25 Mar 09
Yeahh, that's what I wantt :(
But We just don't have the money to go out any more. I ask him, how about we go for a walk...
But he just doesn't like going outside *humf* He says its boring and cold. grr
Think I will just get a job, and I will pay for whenever I want to go out.
It's like im beeing the man. Oh wait, I'm the dominant one in the relationship anyways haha
@srganesh (6340)
• India
25 Mar 09
I think he is taking you for granted.Or he thinks,you will accept him even with his ignorance towards you.But more than that,I suspect his responsibility.It is bad that he even skips colleges for the sake of playing games.He seems to be afraid of facing real people.Better consult a psychiatrist.He will make him alright.Cheers!
@Shawtyshara (105)
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25 Mar 09
Yeap, Your right! He is afraid of facing people, He is shy and he doesn't really like talking to people.
I just asked him on msn, "Whats a psychiatrist? Is it like therapy?"
and he goes "Yep, For mental people"
Haha, Uh OH, you saying he mental? xD
@alboca (17)
• United States
24 Mar 09
hey,it seems like he is not your boyfriend anymore just your husband.
I would ditch him right away. look at your life now and imagine that it will only get worse not better. why would it get better? because he loves you. he is showing how he loves you - he loves internet and games , he needs to ...
http://share.your.momentshere.com
@sugacarley (41)
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25 Mar 09
okay - i think sometimes guys just suck and they cant help it, but you have to ask yourself, where do you draw the line? you dont sound very happy hun?!
@Shawtyshara (105)
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25 Mar 09
Hmm, Well I love him A lot.
But that's the only thing that annoys me.
We used to always go out. I started staying with him a bit more, and found out he was a hard core gamer!
Ooo I havn't actually thought about where I can draw the line :o I think I'm just going to get a job, and then I can pay for going out when I get bored doing jak all the time hehe.
Now, that you said that, I'll have a little think about when enough is enough. =]
