Can I trust my sister n law an dher boyfriend?
@sassymama1974 (178)
United States
March 24, 2009 6:56pm CST
My sister n law asked if my 14 year old daughter and 11 year old son to stay for the weekend.The thing is she living with a guy who went to jail for messing around with a minor (meaning 15 and under) I dont trust this guy and already told my mother n law no and I told her why she had no objections to it.Am I doing the right thing by saying no and trusting my own judgement?Cause all it takes is 5 minutes and my daughters life is ruined for life.
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
I think you have your answer right there. I would not put any of my children in harm's way whether it is the president or my sister-in-law making the invitation to a potential disaster. You can always decline. Free country, you know. Cheers!!
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
6 May 09
Yes you did the right thing. Even without a jail record sometimes you can just feel a person isn't right. Since she had not objections, you know it didn't come between you.
Don't feel bad. Your sister-in-law understands your position so no ill feelings.
@sassymama1974 (178)
• United States
6 May 09
Oh there is a jail record for what he did.I haven't even told her why the kids cant stay unless my mother n law did and if she gets mad oh well my kids come first
@carann (260)
• United States
25 Mar 09
If you have bad feelings about it trust those feelings. Never take chances with your children. You did the right thing even your Mother-in-law understood. I have learned over the years to trust that little voice inside telling you something just isn't safe or right. I suport your judgement 100 percent!
