do you spy on your partner's accounts?

@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
March 25, 2009 2:36am CST
Do you log into your partner's emails, social networking accounts (facebook, myspace, friendster) to see what they've been up to? I've seen so many "how to hack friendster" pleas http://thingswelovetohate.blogspot.com/2008/12/lesson-how-to-hack-friendster.html ...that I wonder what these people would do IF they knew their partners' passwords.
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@med889 (5941)
25 Mar 09
Well we do not do these stuffs. And my password are well known to him infact he help me creating that. I don't have anything to hide from him and he too. A relationship should be clear enough to both people. We got seperate bank account and we have never bothered to ask account numbers or to spy because what we have are for both of us. Now for facebook or similar stuffs then as we are both in it then there is nothing we do secretely.
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@pink_lady (361)
• Philippines
19 May 09
hi oyenkai, Actually, I don't have to call it spying on my husband's accounts, but sometimes I do checked his mails and friendster accounts. ;o) I have his permission to do so and I know his passwords in all of his accounts. But he did not know my password in my accounts, but he didn't ask me to, so why would i give him, right? ;o) but if ever he will ask me, i am willing to give also my passwords in my accounts. He trusted me in that area and I am the one who handles our accounts financially also. I am working in a bank so he trusted me in the field of financing. I am glad that he is kind to me and both of us trusted each other. ;o)
@myralmedo (815)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
hi there :) i used to log on my hubby's accounts (so he does it too :D) but with his permission or actually we do log our individual accounts whoever have a chance to surf the net and i think we have nothing to hide- we know our passwords and it's not spying- no need to spy each other hehe unlike other couples or bf/gf if they don't want you to open their account i think there something fishy/wrong ;) thanks!:) happy myLotting! Godabless!0=)
@youless (112595)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 09
No, I won't check it. I trust my husband as well as he trusts me. I love China
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Mar 09
No, I don't spy on my fiance's account. I trust him, and I have absolutely no reason to spy on him, or anything like that.
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• China
25 Mar 09
I actually will not do this because I think this is not right. Spying on the partner's account may not help us to improve. It even can hurt our feelings against our partners. So this should not be promoted. However, I do know some people like to spy. They are so interested in all of the information of the partners. I must say this can not help their business.
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• Philippines
25 Mar 09
No I don't do that, as I trust my bf and its him who's checking out on me
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Mar 09
H[i]i oyen, Hubby and I know our passwords and he is not checking my account and I will only open his account when he is at work and ask me to check something![/i]
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I do not spy on my husband. I actually have most of his usernames and passwords for his accounts. I check his email, because sometimes there is something important and he does not always check it. I actually setup a facebook account for him, and look at it periodically to see if he acquired any new friends. There is nothing that he is hiding from me, so I do not think it is a problem that I go into his accounts. He is free to go into any of mine too is he wanted to.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
25 Mar 09
My Husband and I both knew our passwords, but I don't peek into his account, I did it once and that was accident because he left it opened. I don't mind if he does open mine and I don't think he cares also if I open his. We don't keep secret's to each other, so there's nothing to hide.
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@springs (923)
• India
25 Mar 09
Spying on the partner is cheating .We should have some personals.I hate to do it
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
25 Mar 09
Nope! I hate to do so. Even if I know my friend's password I try to forget if at all that dos not serve my purpose and my purpose is not to heck. I even do not ask the mail id password of my wife. I respect people's privacy as I like mine too be.
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• China
25 Mar 09
I am not a spy, because I belive her, also she belive me. if no trust, I think life is tiring. happy mylotting.
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@SKYRYNE (100)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
Hi...! Actually my BF asked me to open his account yahoo, friendster , etc. So I think i dont need to spy him. he also open he open my account. Their's also a time that we open our account together. The most important in 1 relationship is to be open with each other. happy mylotting...! mmuuaahhh