Is This A Stupid Reason For My Friend To Be Angry With Me?
By Shawtyshara
@Shawtyshara (105)
March 25, 2009 1:16pm CST
Yesturday, I met up with my two friends at college and everything was going fine.
2nd lesson started, We went in to the classroom a bit early than every one else but 2 other guys from our class went and sat in the classroom with us.
They kept saying stuff about us, But i tried my best to ignore it, so I don' really know what they said. They always take the piss out of me (saying stupid comments that meant I was fat) I get so upset and it's been happening for weeks now. I don't stick up for my self because I'm too shy. I told my friends, why don't you ever back me up and say stuff back to them. So they said that they will from now on.
Anyways, One of my friends left the room (cathrine) to take a phone call. I sat next to my other friend (geeta) and she wasnt talking to me for some reason. Then the guys threw something at me, and I aint taking that, so I just left the room to be with my other friend.
All through out that day geeta wasnt talking to either of us! We was in the library at the computers and I soon asked her whats wrong, I was joking about and held her her and shaked her. She then shouted "GET OFF ME!!" So me and cathrine are thinking WTF, We havn't done anything. College ended, and she went home without saying bye to me.
HERE IS THE REASON: She texts me hours later asking me to ring her so we can talk. She tells me the reason is because I DIDN'T BACK HER UP! What the hell. She says, I should of stood up for her with the guys (apparently they were saying stuff about her, but as I said earlier, I wasn't listening! And remember, the reason I don't do it is because I'm shy!). She also said that me and catherine were talking without involving her..
Both of them always do that to me!!! I don't go nutty over it.
She even said that she was going to hold a grudge against us two
AINT THAT JUST SO STUPID!!??! Eurgh!
Anyways, Ok, I'm finished haha. Thank you for reading if you managed to get to the end of this haha.
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5 responses
@Boofybutt (316)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Do you feel better now? Sometimes we all need to vent. She'll eventually get over it, and chances are, she'll even forget why she was upset in the first place. Besides, you did the right thing by ignoring the other classmates. Nothing stopped her from walking out of that room with you other than herself. Some people think things are worse when it happens to them instead of someone else.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hi, Shawtyshara! Yes, I think that is a dumb reason for her to get mad at you for not taking uo for her. If I was you, I would let her know that you thought that the guys were picking on you and not her. And here you were thinking that your other friend and her did not stand up fo you. I would tell her that, and see what she says. Holding a grudge is never the answer to life's solutions. If you are shy to stand up for yourself, then it can go for taking up for another person, even if they are a good friend of yours.. Your friend needs to stop with this childish behavior. Explain yourself to her and let her know that it was a big misunderstanding. If she still feels mad, and wants to hold a grudge on you and Catherine, then so be it.. You got your feelings out, you did what you had to do. I am sorry that she chooses to act this way with you both. You seem like you are a good friend. I saw your avatar, and I was wondering why would the guys call you fat?
You look very skinny in weight. You don't look no where near being fat! Take care!
You look very skinny in weight. You don't look no where near being fat! Take care!1 person likes this
@Shawtyshara (105)
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25 Mar 09
I told her on the phone, that I thought they were being mean to me and not her.
Its not going through that skull of hers! Your so right, she is childish! Humf
I told her everythinggg and then she starts shouting at me saying I need to get confidence! :( I can't just make that happen! Geeta then called cathrine up, and she starts telling her that I need to get more confidence, and cathrine was so much more understandable that she knew I can't just get over being shy instantly!
Wow, geeta is a bad friend xD
Well, That picture is actually me last summer, hahaaha. I've put on weight *sniffles* But I'm not exactly that fatt...geeta is bigger than me, and they take the piss ouf of MEEE!! there are other people in the classroom bigger than me as well. Stupid boys.
Thank you for responsing btw ^^
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
This is just something that you'll laugh at when you look back to your college days. Remember, college isn't everyting and your life is not limited to your college life. I was a pushover when I was in highschool and a drop out when I was in college. Now, I'm working hard to support my family and I can't even remember the things that happened during my highschool and college days. Just shrug this incident off and think of the things that really matters - your future. Don't focus on petty things like these, you're way above these crap and you know better. Focus on your studies.
@snowy22315 (182193)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I think it sounds like a major personal problem, and that hopefully she will get over it. I dont like it when friends get mad at you presumably over no reason. I think your friend will hopefully be able to forgive you and the two of you can continue to go on as friends.
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
i think that there's somewhat a point that your friend need to be angry with you, but little did she know that you were unaware of what's happening. and that is why, she thought the other way around.
try to explain to her and i am sure that it'll make a big difference.
