What is SEXY to you? how will you describe?

I always like to see a man wearing blue jeans, a white shirt and a jacket/blazer. I just loved it when my husband dressed this way.

Sometimes you know even when the woman looks awful in her outfit because her body is not actually in proportion with her outfit, if it shows more of her flesh and curves, people will just say oh sexy! Instead of oh how awyful! Ha!ha!ha! But a real sexy one is a woman with proportionate body. The body statistics should be 36, 26, 35 or 34, 24, 34, or 35, 25, 35 depending on her height and built. Now for a man, of course the sexy one is one who has the muscles in right places and no bulging stomach. However, to me I would not want to be called sexy. It is better to be called lovely or better yet beautiful. Sexiness to me is associated with flesh and lust so that when a man look at you and said you are sexy, it is more often than not that he is already imagining something.

To me sexy is a confident woman, clothes do matter but when a woman knows who she is and can carry herself with confidence, that's what's sexy to me.

Sexy to me is somebody who wears sexy dresses like you mentioned (for women). I don't really understand what's the real gauge of being sexy but based on what has been the norms, I guess I go w/ what I said.

Hey Bebs! You know the first clue to the answer to your question is that the answer is different to everyone! I think that "sexy" is different to different people! To me the word "sexy" has to do with not only the way a man looks, but the way a man acts, the way he treats a woman and the way he he behaves in general! It is more than just the way he looks! So there is alot more to being sexy then meets the eye, or that is what I take it to mean!

Sexy can be anything,from a guys perspective it will be a girl who is showing more skin will be sexy,or a girl will a perfect body can be sexy.Other than that,sexy can mean a lot to me.I even call my dogs innocent face to be sexy,his smile to be sexy and his charming-ness to be sexy.So it can be related to a lustful thought or to an innocent face.Reasoning varies with everyone so does sexy also vary with me and you

for me,sexy would mean how a lady carries herself(straight and meeting the man by the eye).if a woman is self-confident,she is bound to be sexy.as for in a man ,i find the eyes part the most sexiest.

[i]Hi Bebs, sexy for me in man is the one who is clean, wearing blue jeans with any nice and clean shirt and with clean shoes...or clean short with clean shirt on it and nice slipper for summer...LOL! [/i]

Sexy in the appearance is the people who looks amazing and pleasing for me. Also, the sentimental thought can be called sexy.

i find someone sexy if he or she knows how to carry himself/herself well and is able to project that sexiness in a chic way...a woman who is top=heavy shouldnt be wearing plunging neckline..hello! the message is clear!..no need to flaunt those....it's not being sexy...being too open with being sexy is a turn off...being a bit mysterious is really sexy!

Sexiness is all about the power of a person's presence, which starts with self-confidence (not to be confused with cockiness, arrogance, conceit, etc), and generosity of spirit. Sexiness can be influenced by the way a person looks, including what they wear and their body shape, but it doesn't necessarily have to. When a person is aesthetically pleasing to look at, accomplished through the way they dress and to a degree their body type, people look at them with admiration or approval and a positive self-image is reinforced. Usually they feel good about themselves, more confident, and the confidence translates to sexiness. So appearance can help a person feel confident and therefore be sexy, but appearance isn't sexiness by itself. Most of us know people who go to great lengths to achieve a certain "look" (muscled men, scantily clad women) in the hope of being attractive, but fail to achieve "sexiness" because despite the look, they are self-conscious, insecure, and often self-absorbed, which is not sexy. I certainly know of many people who are average or less-than-average looking but who are very sexy because they are confident, outgoing,mindful of others, and they dress appropriately for their body type and age. Looks are skin-deep, but sexiness comes from the soul. At least that's been my experience. Fun topic!

There is a lot that goes in to what I think is sexy. Sometimes it is soft skin and a firm body, and others just have a personality that is sexy. My first girlfriend was the latter of these two. She was not sexy in a conventional way,but to me she hung the moon. I though she was the prettiest thing that I have ever laid eyes on,

Sexy is silk lingerie that clings in all the right places, a bottle of champagne, soft music and warm candlelight

sexy is not exposed.sexy is a kind of grace and charm.

Hi, Bebs08! Anything that smells good on a man is sexy to me. A man that has respect for another woman. A man who has a calm soothing voice and attitude. A man that dresses in a tux like shirt then wears jeans. A man that has a nice smile with brilliant white teeth. A man that knows how to dance is very sexy to me! For the woman, just as long as she has on the right outfit that accentuates her figure is considered sexy. Wearing strapless heels is sexy too.

sexy means wearing shorts clothes..sexy for woman do have curve bodies..i don't consider any sexy even they wear short clothings but if their body do not have any curves then i don't call them sexy..i like girls who have a wide hips and got a large boobs and small waistline..that's enought..inner beauty is inner sexy too..those possess a good attitude for me is already sexy inside..

I too sexy for my shirt, too sexy for car...lol. Happy Mylotting.

When I saw people, I see their eyes and smile, if someone shows their self-confidence naturally, not arrogantly, I will call them SEXY persons, they might not need to wear a big smile, even they don't smile, I think I could see the smile through their eyes. And I don't like people so thin.

sexy could mean any number of things to different people. enticing words, revealing clothes, a certain kind of walk in women, a kind of strut in men, the way you look at someone, etc etc etc.. oh the list is endless.. but in the end, it lies in the eye and mind of the beholder. what is sexy to one neednt be sexy to another. I have had some tell me that my voice is sexy. another felt it is too girly. yet another felt it is mature. so? I am confused. each is a person's opinion. I also think that when someone goes "wow sexy" it is just the superficial perception of that person.. based on the way they are dressed or the way they smile, etc. Soon after getting to know the person a little more, you wont be calling them sexy any more, cos then the flaws begin to show! lol for the "wow sexy" effect to linger on all the time, the girl or guy will have to retain a certain myster about them.. like Mona Lisa, for example :-)