I am upset and everything!!!

I know i have experienced a lo t of it, thats why i never share my problems with any one, no one looking at me will ever know i have one, first of all i never dwell on my problem i just go on as if nothing happened, its difficult sometimes but really you can master this art of totally ignoring yor problem, by keeping your occupied do something anything to take your mind away from the problem but the world is like that the people are good at judging and passing unreasnable comments,thats life we must accept the bitter facts and make sure our peace is intact

hi there vanities i have a serious problem as well i have never been upset since yesterday but i know life goes on and not many people care what goes on in our lifes cheer up like i am trying to do take care happy mylotting

When people are sarcastic I just just never let those remarks get into my head and worry and let them have the pleasure of making their point.I just ignore them.If you worry they win.If you don't you win.

Hi vanities, I know clearly that some people won’t help me after I told them the problem I have encountered. It is worse still that they will drop with some disgusting sarcastic remarks which totally could do any help to the serious problem. This really makes me felling irritated and frustrated. Since then I won’t ask for any help from the same persons anymore. I will try to ask help from people whom I can trust and will give me help only. Happy posting

Hello vanities, I will get irritated and angrier when people answer me sarcastically while I am having a serious problem. They might not be able to help me but at least, they can do or say something that can soothe me and make me forget my problem slowly.

Depends on the remarks. Were they being sarcastic to try and chear you up? Was it something you posted on mylot and your fellow mylottians posted remarks you didn't like? Because if that is the case then you need to learn not to take it personal. They may not have quit understood you or maybe they were just being jerks. Whatever the reason you musn't take it personal.

That makes me feel upset too, but I turn it back on them by letting them know that it takes a mighty small person to answer someone in a way like that, and that were they to have the same problem, I would never ever sink to the level to which they have just sunk.

I went to school where sarcasm was a way of communication. So I learned to nail them back. Every time someone said something sarcastic, I said something sarcastic back, and tried to bury them with sarcasm. But only in self-defence. Eventually, people learned to leave me alone. Sarcastic people want you to feel bad. They like your facial or voice reaction. But my husband wouldn't give them a reaction except to look at them like they're stupid. So you can sink down to their level and cream them like I did until they leave you alone or look at them like they're stupid like my husband used to. Either way, they learn to leave you alone.

i feel really irritated and more upset when people gives me answer that obviously isnt helpful. To prevent arguments, I just try to stay calm and walk out actually hehehe, its the way I can do than shouting at them for being sarcastic and insensitive... Sarcastic remarks just gives you more of negative effect than making you calm and making you feel good... So whenever Im upset, I only talk to my fiance or some of my friends who knows me well--- I prevent asking questions or anything to those who dont know me well, its hard if they dont because the tendency is they might say or act in any way that would make you feel bad more. Try to cheer up my friend and eat chocolates to make you feel better...

Hi, vanities! It makes me feel bad, like as if I have done something so wrong. I don't get the answer to my problem, that is for sure. I know that I will feel much worser than I felt when I first had the problem. I don't like it when people make me feel more bad than I am already feeling.. They are not helping but adding more to my problem. I know that they do this a lot on Yahoo Answers. They seem to always have a rude and sarcastic remark to say. That is why I prefer to come to myLot to discuss my problems. I run into idiots on both sites at times. But, not everyone is like that. I have met many people that give intelligent responses.

i don't think people have much compassion for you like they use to.i find alot of compassion on mylot from perfect strangers than i do from family & close friends sometimes. i find that strange but sure do appreciate my friends i have made on here. sarcastic just doesn't get it when u are upset. hope things improvr for you.

i know just what you mean. i talked with my ex hubby one day last week and he kept saying things to po me. when i said you know im sorry for your attitude and not sure i ever want to talk with you again, he started saying he was joking and i obviously forgot about his sarcastic joking. i said well i guess so its been many years so i must not ever appreciated it

i know who i can go to and talk about things and wont get the dumb remarks. but everyone handle things different. and some are like oh well. i often will find myself saying oh well and make myself numb to things

Hey vanities! Who upset you? Let me know because I will definitely let them have it! What was the problem and who and what did they say to you? I will not let anyone hurt any of my really special friends! I can't believe that anyone would ever hurt you! You are one of the sweetest people here on mylot and never even say one mean thing to anyone! So give me the information and I will be more than happy to help you deal with the bully! I'm serious now Vanities, no one hurts my friend and gets away with it!!!

Hello, vanities. I know that kind of feeling, i've experienced too. I feel upset i blame myself for telling them. But it doesn't help. They are not me, how can they totally know my feeling, and i shouldn't trust for their understanding, some can, some will never stand from others' point of view and think. Different people, different thinking style. Every time i met this kind of people, i'd tell myself--another wrong guy! If he/she won't be the listener and comfort me, i don't think i will tell my story a second time. And we will never be friends. There are so many people in the world, I don't if he/she is not in my friends' list, I will find those who deserve my trust and respect. It doesn't make any sense to be upset because of a stranger's behavior, does it? Hope you will cheer up soon and forget all about that wrong person.