what can you say about an 18 year old girl marrying a 60 year old man?

[b]Hello! Aisa![/b] A 60 years old man marrying a 18 years old girl looks bizzare and strange to me. If a man gets marry at an early age, he could well be a grand-father at the age of 60. Otherwise, for a man of 60 years old, a girl of 18 years is like his daughter and I fail to understand how they will match with other. I find that it is not a compatible match. A 18 years old girl is too young and and immature and inexperienced so as to understand the meaning and intricacies of marriage. And also, a 60 years old man cannot be so energetic to fulfill all the demands of a 18 years old girl. They will behave like a daughter and a father...........LOL! Once here on mylot one of my friends (she no longer comes on mylot now) sent me a PM telling me that she is in love with a guy of 19 years of age, while she was approximately 43 years of age. She wanted me views on it. I told here my views frankly that age difference between you and your boy friend is too much and I am not sure how it will work in the long run or whether it will work in the long run. However, she did not appreciate my views and stated that she is comfortable in her relationship with that boy. I mean to say that too much age difference between a boy and a girl or man or a woman may not be a good sign for a healthy relationship in the long run. Deepak How are you?

What can I say about it? --- Well, I know that age doesn't matter. But, this is one thing I do not know.... For me the big question is... How did that happen? I mean I could think that they are grandfather and granddaughter thing. But, I couldn't come up on a answer that they become a couple. Hehehe. Do you think they will live together? --- If they are indeed a couple then yes. Unless both parties agreed to it. Hehehe. Do you think they are really happy? --- Er.. who started the relationship first anyways? If it is force marriage or whatever, then I guess only one side has the happiness. Well, it depends on how they can approach this. What is the first thing that came into your mind the moment you see them on the street? --- I wouldn't think of them as a couple that is for sure. hehehehe.

I too heard about 18-20 years age girls marring 50-60 years age old man mainly in muslim countries.I don't like this type of marriages as it ruins girl life.The man is 50 - 60 years and he may die in 2-4 years and after that girl life will be ruined and have to leave alone and no body is there to take care of her and the girl cann't leave a happy life with old man as the man is of the age of her father. I too read in bood and You should read a the book named "Nirmala" written Premchand in hindi "INDIA" which is about a poor family girl married with 3 sons old man keep mylotting

Age does not really matter when it comes to love.. But that only applies to true love between them, and not love for the money whoever has it.. lol =D I mean, such things are really hard to say or be judged upon because we are the 3rd party, and not being involved in it ^_^ PLus, if they really love each other, they wont even bother about how others will be looking at them, for they are already in the world of their own ^_^

Frankly, my 1st reaction would be but it's none of my business anyway right? Everyone has the right to choose & I am a judge of none so what can I say? Absolutely NOTHING!!! Hahaha~!As for the will they....& .... part is for them to know & not even for us to find out? Hahaha!~

I don't support this type of marriage.For a couple age difference can be at best 10 years. If a 18 year old girl marry 60 year old man than there is every chance to be a widow when the the girl will remain young.Are the girls of Philippines are greedy to marry white people?

I can say it sa destiny all in gods hand. I think theywill live happily together for months if not for years . Yes they will be happy for short time in their life. Oh what a lucky man and what a so pitty girl long life short partner.

this kind of cases always can be seen in the villages, where people are poor and illetarate. people marry their daughters to age old person for money and to get ride of the liability. and the girls of that place doesnt know that they were making their life miserable. the couple couldnt look good. they wont live a happy life for a long time.

Honestly I got frustrated seeing our very young women going with very old foreigners in our place. It's very very obvious that the young women out there are after only of the money of that old partner if ever they got married. What if the old husband would just be an ordinary man with having not much money, would the young wife would marry him? Let's be honest in your part what would you say? I am sure you will say NO WAY! That's all I can say. I am sorry I hope you're not that kind...mobhomeir

HEllo ellis,True love can transcend any inhibitions, including age, money, background. I do believe the existence of true love in the world. Age difference is not a big deal, if they love deeply each other. Of course they have to overcome much more difficulties than other people,,If they can do these, the love is much more priceless than others, and I will give my best wishes to the special lovers!!!

i can not accept this kind of marrage.it is really strange.maybe the girls who want to do so just want to get the olders' money or other.but i guess that they can not get their real happiness together.

I say just leave them alone if that's what makes them happy. I don't really like the social norms. You don't have to be the same age to fall in love right? I hate it that people stare at these kinds of things. I mean, come on! One person will call the old geezer perverted, another person will call the young lady a gold digger. Gimme a break! I firmly believe in this quote: "All is fair in love."

I have read many such stories, but sincerely I never can feel amything positive about such relations, how can it all be, I dont think such relations go long or at least some way, life partners must be of same age according to me... Happy mylotting dear!!!

Alomst people think it is queetion,but it exist in real life,i do not know they are really happy,but i think they love each other,spritual life is happy

I generally feel that an age difference isn't a big deal when two people are adults and in love. In the case that you mention though, I can't help but wonder what in the world th two could possibly have in common. He is old enough to be her father, at the very least, and prettyy close to being old enought to be her grandfather. Personally, I think that the age difference is to great for them to truly be happy. If I saw them on the street together, I think my first thought would be that he is her father. If I saw them kissing, I would think that something wasn't quite right.

Well this is a big age difference but it happens and it is usually money which plays the part.... it is girl which is poor and probably beautiful and has to sacrifice a lot of her desire for the good living .. it can be that guy has promised that he would help her family if she decides to marry him and things like this and in some western countries girls and guys would marry old ppl for green card but i dont think the younger person can be physically or mentally happy. But this might be the best way for them to get out of their troubles.

Hello Ais!! Am here now lol! Your discussion caught my attention huh!!I wish I could tell them that love conquers all,I wish i could tell them that they are lucky to have each other , and that age ain’t nothing but a number and that man more than twice your age make great life partners and loyal companions, but I can’t. I don't want to say that their feelings is not real.. who am I to judge them anyway? They may sincerely believe that there is nothing wrong with their age differences...Of course initial reaction is, really? are they couples? hehehehe.. but it does not mean, am being judgemental lol! it was an honest mistake :)) If they would really happy, it is their choice that they made, specially to an 18 yr old girl :) wish her luck...

Hi aisaellis, that was an interesting discussion he he. Well, in my opinion there are different reasons why relationship goes into that way. Frankly, it could be money, comfort, love, and many more. But love really don't choose age. The gap is far but they may really love each other. They are happy in a sense that they were together and just beside each other. However, sadness awaits them because the older one have to go to heaven earlier and it's the life reality. When i saw situations like that I just smile and i just agree with the air that love is blind. :)

hello aisaellis,the comments are so many that I don't read them all.I think I can't accept the relationship about an 18 year old girl marrying a 60 year old man for me.But others maybe have the right to select their own life.Wish their happy.^_^

Well,i think it`s hard to guess their relationship when they are walking in the street.Parhaps they were grandfather and grandchild.But everything is possible.Though love can pass through anything,just like time,they don`t have enough days to live together.In this case,i`m sympathic about them if they really love each other.