how do you choose when you face difficult problem?

There is a lot to think about when it comes to forming relationships - and unfortunately, when you're in the "involved party" then it's quite hard to even think of it in a logical manner. First point I think to consider is maturity - is your friend mature and old enough? We might be talking about a young adolescent and we're only blowing up a simple situation :) Then next is, what kind of relationship is your friend looking for? If she seriously sees this guy as someone she can spend the rest of her life with - not in the daydream sense, but in the practical sense of working as a partner and providing with each other - then I think the next step is to determine why the parents are against their relationship. They might have objective reasons and it is always good to consider other people's opinions :) especially one's parents. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

ok if his parents are diagree with them then pls request them.or if the boy says that he dont wants to make his parents sad then do as his parents says or just do marriage wth that girl to whom he loves.but after marying he would get prblms bcoz he is poor as well as not well educated. so wht he hv to do frst is tht frst earn money thn marry her ok.

If there is love in the middle,your friend should follow her heart!!But be careful the guy to be ok,because usually parents have a reason to disagree!!Not always,of course!If he is really ok ,she has to prove this to her parents with a way.I think her parents want the best for her and if she looks happy with this man,sooner or later they will see that their daughter is just fine with him.They will let her alone.But if they are stubborn,not understanding their daughter there is always the other way:Since the bribe and the groom "want",blindess have parents in law!!Good luck!!