My friend is blowing me off?

Just ask her what's going on? after, tell her what you feel.If she's really your friend she have to be there always...If she did'nt want to talk to you, just forget and move on.Many people around you...I'm here too

My thoughts are that you need to have a straight talk with her to clear this up. BTW: If I had caught her in a lie, I would have gone to her house, knocked at the door, and confirmed that she was actually there, and had blown you off. Then, she couldn't make an excuse up and the problem would have to be dealt with.

I'd say tell her the truth. Tell her you went to the store and noticed she was home. I have a question. Do you think it is a possibility she is seeing your ex? therefore avoiding you? Just a thought. Have a Great Day!!!

She doesn't want to be your friend. I know it hurts but these things happen. Maybe she is dating your ex and doesn't want you to know, for some reason. Now you have to stand on your own two feet, tell yourself your relationship is over with and handle it by yourself--which you can! Talk it over with your friend you were with Wednesday, he'll probably be a much better sounding board anyway. If you can't do that, just let it go and quit brooding. Get on with life and have some fun, it wasn't meant to be so just get over it and get on with it. Sorry if I sound callous but I could've saved myself so much heartache when I was younger if I hadn't insisted on brooding and agonizing over love affairs that ended. I hope things work out for you. Remember that with friends like that, you certainly don't need enemies!

This is really sad, and there must be a reason why your friend is suddenly avoiding you. Are you sure she doesn't fancy your ex, and is wanting to date him? I think it's best if you try to see her in person, and ask to her face why she's avoiding you. I hope you can get to the bottom of this soon.

Hey bree! I would ask you friend straight out what the problem is? Do you think that she could possibly be seeing you X and is feeling guilty about it? I would definitely confront her right away! If she is supposed to be such a good friend I would definitely want to know why she is suddenly avoiding you! If she doesn't want to answer the question, then I would just stop bothering her and forget about her! She obviously was never really such a great friend to being with!

I guess you don't jump into conclusion about her. Maybe let her explain about what you've witnessed and tell her by the way you saw it seems that she did not really go out of town. Let her explain her side and from there you can judge if she is really wroth keeping it.

Hi Bree! It doesn't sound like this this woman is the 'closest friend' that you thought she was. My guess is that one of a couple of things is going on. One possiblity is that she has become involved with your ex. Another is that in lieu of continuing to contact you, he has now switched to her for sympathy and support. Perhaps he's twisted her mind with his side of the story? Regardless, you have not done anything wrong and she is not the friend you thought she was. If that's the case, you don't need her friendship as much as you think you do. It's hard to lose people that you thought you could count on. That happening at the same time your relationship ended is a double blow. I suspect you are a stonger person that you give yourself credit for. It takes that kind of strength to end a relationship that isn't working...and to put a stop to the epiloges like you did. You are now on the first chapter of a new book. You are the writer, and only you can determine what the story will be and how it will turn out. Look forward, not backward. I've always looked at my time between relationships as opportunities. Without baggage to consider, you can take the time to explore new things. Take a class in something that interests you. Join a club, or a committee. Volunteer in your community. You can do this. You'd be surprised at the new friends and contacts that walking on new paths will bring to you. And for the times you need a shoulder? You have us here at MyLot for that.

Don't feel let down by your close friends.She might have some real personal works to be done and she might not ignore you intentionally.Make a call to her,tell her your desperate situation,longing for a shoulder to rest and sure,she will understand you and spare some time.Cheers!

hey dear.dont feel so let down...what she is doing may be and may not be intentional......i would say if she is such a close friend of your's it would be better that you just call her up and tell her that you need her and that what ever you have seen made you feel this way. if she is a real friend she is sure to understand you and come to be there for you..... dont worry dear.life isnt always as bad as we think...... i have been through this and i can surely tell you that once something bad happens we tend to believe that what ever is happening is going to be bad..........it is not like that take care......

dont worry about what people thing of you and how you look and just live life to the fullest.