Do you think your boyffiend would not be so sweet after you get married?
By dorothyteng
@dorothyteng (14)
China
March 26, 2009 2:42am CST
Many girls complain that their boyfriends changed after they getting married, they are not so sweet as before, even some of them begin to yell at their wivies when they made the mistakes they ususally make. Do you think you maybe change after getting married?
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@la_chique (1498)
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26 Mar 09
It depends how long you're together for in the first place. I know my bf inside out as we've been together 6yrs and still going strong. I know nothing will change with marriage. It will only be a piece of paper and he'll still be the same guy. Some couples get married to soon and of course their partner will seem to change if they're still getting to know them or if they wernt quite right for each other anyway.
My bf yells at me sometimes, but I just yell at him back. I know we'll kiss and makeup after and everything will be ok. Its just a human emotion called stress/frustration. I guess before those girls got married their bfs were still trying to fight it to put up a good impression.
@dorothyteng (14)
• China
31 Mar 09
Oh, you and your bf are so happy, I am glad to see that. I hope my bf and I can be as happy as you are. And I just hope our bfs can not be change too much, then we can know they still love us as much as before. I can't stand too much change actually. ^_^ Give best wishes to you and your boy friend.
@la_chique (1498)
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26 Mar 09
I think its healthy to argue once in a while. It shows u still care. Each person in the relationship didnt have a problem with the other once in a while, either they wouldnt care anymore or they'd be robots lol
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
I think that is a natural thing to happen for us guys. But I do not believe that our feelings have changed also. I do love my wife although my sweetness may have lessened but my love for her is still there. I guess the over familiarity of things between the two of you will have to lessened the sweetness in the relationship. Working hard and stress can also be a big factor in it. It is at the time of marriage that we are bombarded with so many problems that you don't experience when you were not married. There comes the kids, expenses, etc. etc. That is just a few and there are more to come. For us men we need to solve those problem heads on and the sweetness thing are those that we don't need to solve those problems.
@dorothyteng (14)
• China
31 Mar 09
He he, your opnion is true and interesting. I know there are many staff need both of man and the woman to solve, but we women just hope thay men can be not too much changed after married or we will can not stand the change at a moment. We need to time to accept the changes. Hope you have a good time.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Well I guess change cannot be postponed it will always come for us and we should be ready to accept or reject it. Do not expect to always be in a bed of roses because they too become stale too in the long run. So expect changes but continue on loving the change and adjust through it and eventually you'll get the hang of it. Love cannot change but the circumstances around will definitely change in time. You just have to be creative enough to let the love stay the same in different circumstances.
@nikhilmutgi (40)
• India
26 Mar 09
Many girls would tell this. But I have seen relations where the both have been enjoying their life with mutual understanding even after getting married. Even guys think of the same way.
But whats most important is the mutual understanding. If there is no mutual understanding then no relations will survive.
Mutual understanding is must in every relationship.
@dorothyteng (14)
• China
31 Mar 09
Yes, i think you are right. The mutual understanding is very important. Great Comment, thanks.