am I wrong??

China
March 26, 2009 3:17am CST
when my bf's went on business,I intend to not contact him till his back. Maybe that's because I don't want myself to have been always waiting for his message which is always unnecessary for him,not to mension a call from him. I don't know what can I do . I really don't want to message him or call him when he is out on business,but I really miss him,however,he seems he never have missed me.
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@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
pride hinders you not to text him. a simple hi and hello, take care, i miss you, iloveyou is so sweet. so why not do it? expressing one's feelings to your loved one makes you happy also because you're just expressing what you feel.do it often and your boyfriend will appreciate it because he knows that you're giving him importance and that you miss and love him so much.. happy mylotting
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@geetnx (51)
• Kuwait
26 Mar 09
no you aint wrong, i think we're the same. and sometimes, because of my pride it stops me from being true to myself. i think its petty of me to expect from my partner to do the same thing what im doing to him.
• China
27 Mar 09
you're right. Actually it is very lucky for us that we have "him" who we fall in love with.We should be happy and show "him" our love any time when we want to.What's more we just need to think about how much we have devoted to "him",not always expecting the same effort from our soul mates.Everything can be done just because we love "him"
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Mar 09
Hi, heyjudyer! You are not wrong. You just want to give your Bf some space. I know that you don't want to be calling him like you are out of your mind. You want him to chase you. I can understand that. Let him call you when he gets ready. If he takes longer than 2 or three more days then it is okay to call him. I know that when he is out on business that you want to respect him while he is away, but wait and see if he will return the call to you. Let him do the favor this time. Try not to stress over him not calling you! Take care!
• China
27 Mar 09
Thank you for understanding me.. As you said,he may need some space.On the other hand,maybe I need some space without him too.maybe I should do some of my favourite things to get over this time when he is out on business.I should enjoy myself in any way,which could be good for me and for him too. I should love myself and then I can be able to love him ,in other words then I'll learn how to love him and other people.
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
well, if it's in my case i would gonna call him after his work..i would send him message after his work ..the right time when he is free so that he is available and he could even make a call to me whenever he receives my message if you gotta texted him during work, well, you might just disturb him in his work..just avoid disturbing so that he won't get mistakes on his work..other woman are so possessive that is why they keep on calling and texting even the time of work..text and call should arrived at the right time and place..only emergeny text and call should arrived anytime..
• China
26 Mar 09
how do you know when he is working?Maybe he is working overtime when you text him.What'more, what will you do if he doesn't make a response to you in two days after your call or texts.
@chookie1971 (2271)
• Australia
26 Mar 09
I would send him a text and see what he does. You never know, he may text you back or even call you when he is free. I do that with my husband. If I need to talk to him, I don't want to call him at work, so I send him a text. He will either call me or text me when he is free.
@med889 (5941)
26 Mar 09
I have felt like that before. And then without thinking too much I send my message. So that I don't say afterward that "oh I should have send him atleast a message" And before he comes back and say "and what about you..seems like you did not miss me too" So take you mobile and send a message.
• China
26 Mar 09
I have been the one who sends the other a message first for many times,and so many times when he came back I told him I hoped and needed messages from him because I missed him so much.But the next time he went out ,he was still that one. I am so sad that I don't intend to message him which could make me more sad.....