LOVE: Destiny or choice...?

I think both matters too. First, you have to be destined to meet each other sometimes in your life. As you walk your path of life, destiny allows you to cross each other's path. After that, it is the choice of the two. Whether they are serious in the relationship to make it start and ensuring it to last. Relationship is not always the story of happily ever after, but rather whether the couple is willing to sacrifice themselves for each other. To me, destiny allows the couple to know each other. After which, it is up to them to make it work. This is just my 2 cents personal view. Hahaa..

The initial meeting I think you can credit it to destiny like how two people can be in the same place at the same time. After that I think it has to be the couple's decision that matters. It's the love, effort and commitment that they put in the relationship that would really tell how long it will last. If the relationship ends, it's not because destiny wont permit them to be together. More often there may be several unresolved issues in the relationship already.

"Love is not just a feeling, its a work in progress" -- Leonardo Talpo

The mystery of love and relationship is so vague at some point but here is my take anyway, let's just say that I am a believer of every person was created for someone in a specific time and place - that's destiny, contrarily, that destiny would ONLY happened only if you make a choice. We, as human beings we have a limited faculties where we couldn't see what is beyond us, but we are given the intelligence or the mind to choose something or someone whom we felt that it really is for you. This is probably the reason why people say, when it comes to love, trust your heart for it determines your destiny.

For me, Pple makes their own destiny. The creator is the guidance for our choice we will make. GOD doesn't want to end up the relation of two couple. He cried for tears but becouse its the two couple decissions, GOD just giving them the guidance to be strong in evry move they make.

Ha ha! It is choice of course. For me, there's no destiny. If ever there is, then you wouldn't even know about it since it destined to be like that. ^^

Hi karbuks! I think that we all have someone out there that is our other half. I think that we are only completed after we meet them. I know it sounds silly but I think that way. So i guess our partner would be considered "destined" I think there is a lot of hard work and loyalty that goes into a relationship though so to keep them..we must choose our destiny by doing right by them and ourselves. Some people never even find their other half which I think is sad.

It's probably a choice to whom we should spent our life with. You might say its our destiny because that is where we are really heading. To our destination but of course we too must choose our destiny. If we let destiny rule our world or prophecies, then we will not live a happy life because of the so called "destiny" you followed. It should be your choice that you should follow.

hey if you want it you get it. there is no destiny. but you gotta make your destiny. the committment is most important thing in a relationship.