what if the person you love, she just want to be friend
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
March 26, 2009 7:05pm CST
What if the person you pursue love with, she doesn't love you. She only treats you like a friend only. Would you stick around her as always. Because you thought that you will get a chance with her, you stick around her, help her every way you can. But after you found out this brutal truth, would you do the same? It will be different though, she doesn't see you the same way you see her. Or maybe it is a time to part way? what is your choice?
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5 responses
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
27 Mar 09
But won't that be waste of your time, since you knew that she will not love you, whatever you going to do.
@rainwater (352)
• China
27 Mar 09
I will choose to stick around her as always,help her every way I can.I will go on looking after her the same.Best wishes.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
27 Mar 09
No matter how hard you try, do you think she gonna see you in her eyes?
@srganesh (6340)
• India
27 Mar 09
If she can accept you as a friend still,after you have proposed to her,I think,you should stick on as before and maintain the relationship.May be there will be a second chance to propose again which may end up fruitful.Even,if you don't get one,it will be always happy to be with the person,we love.We can enjoy it,if our love is just love and not lust.Cheers!
@tenchi18ph (176)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
For me if that's the case, then I will respect her decision. Anyway you can still love her the normal way that you love her as a friend and anything exceeds that will be on your move. And if you do that thing, don't expect her to love you the way that you planned to because it's your choice and she can only offer the love of friendship to you and nothing will exceed. Maybe she has other plans and other criteria of person that she's looking and she hasn't found that to you. You can still stick to her side that by the times she needs your help you're always be there to help her and maybe that will be the trigger to her to appreciate and eventually realized that all the time she's been looking for someone but that someone is already at her side long time ago.
@AzureWolf (9)
• United States
27 Mar 09
If you want to stay around because she is a good friend and you like spending time with her, then stay AS A FRIEND. However, if you want more than just friendship, if you cannot accept being nothing more than her friend, then LEAVE.
You will only make it harder to move on if you stay with her. You will also miss and not notice many opportunities and other girls who you might get along with because you are so enamored with her. So, therefore, you have to have something worthwhile.
Also, if you leave, maybe she will look at you differently, maybe she will realize she likes you and that she did not notice it because you were always there. It's like, you don't appreciate good health until you are sick; you don't appreciate friends until you are alone. This is the same.
Don't stay hoping to be more than friends. It will be very unhelpful to you, and mean to her. Think about it: if you keep doing the same things, don't you think she will keep feeling the same way?
