Have you talked about marriage with another person?

Philippines
November 10, 2006 7:39pm CST
i have been in a relationship with this guy for 8 months now.. but we never talk about marriage. i mean.. not that i want him to marry me. it's just the thought of NOT talking about the future that kinda bothers me.
5 responses
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
in love - in love
maybe you should take the initiative and ask him to share with you about your view of the future...me and my bf has been together for about 3-4 months, but he has been talking about marriage,kids, and growing old together. if it's bugging you, why dont you be the one to ask instead? or you can drop hints..? good luck!
• Philippines
14 Nov 06
thanks for the advice! ehehe. ok.. il drop some hints this weekend. lol
@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
11 Nov 06
Don't stress out. My husband and I didn't start talking about marriage until well after a year into the relationship.
• Philippines
11 Nov 06
ahh. thanks. :) so i have 4 months to go. ehehe.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Nov 06
My fiance and I talke dabout marriage from the get go - ofcourse back then it is was that neither of us was looking to get married LOL. I have dated a few guys who were looking for Mrs Right and wanted to know my view of marriage before even attempting a serious relationship. I can't blame them. I wouldn't want to commit years of my life only to find out that I want to get married onyl to find out the person I am with doesn't want to or doesn't believe in marriage and isn't willing to bend that for me.
@RieRie (820)
11 Nov 06
I've talked about marriage, kids, jobs, houses, just about everything, I think we started talking about it seriously after about a year I think.
• Romania
11 Nov 06
yes