confusion!!!

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you know what bugs me? People always say they want you to say "how you feel".."share your feelings" and when you do, if its not something they want to hear then they get upset!!!! I am a very upfront and honest person. I dont just blurt things out without a filter but i also dont beat around the bush. Someone once told me that the one quality that he loved about me was the fact that i had an honest, upfront approach to things..but yet, when i am honest and upfront, it causes issues. I dont go aroudn picking fights or arguements with anyone...but if i am feeling upset about something someone did, i am going to let them know. Maybe its me pointing out their faults and they dont like it, or maybe im just being callus. I am not mean or ugly by any means but dont tell me to be honest and upfront about how i feel and then when i do, get angry about it...it bugs me..... People say they miss the old me..the one who told it like it was...said things that i felt instead of hiding it on the inside....so you know, i bring this old part of me back out and the same people who said they missed it, are the ones who i am having the most issues with?? i mean??? which is it??? they only want to hear the honest and upfront GOOD side...if you cant take the positive AND negative then dont say you want people to be honest and upfront....