Should marriage be the ultimate end of love?

@srganesh (6340)
India
March 27, 2009 6:35am CST
Well,should lovers end with marriage and then only it is the success of love?Then what is the meaning to all those loves failed due to some reasons.I think,true love lives only in the hearts of people who got their loves failed.What do you say?
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@veedhya (72)
• Mauritius
13 Jun 09
It depends on what situation we are referring...Some lovers like to opt for marriage since it a legally accepted in most countries....But love is immortal...
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
13 Jun 09
Yes!marriage can be the ultimate if it is demanded by the society.Otherwise it is not a mark on the love we have.We can still love and love and love as far as we can.What if you got a lost love?Won't you nourish it more?
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
28 Mar 09
I don't know! I haven't been in love before and really didn't get married till too but what I feel is that when two bodies connects physically after their heart connection, the love thing gets a success and it is the end of it. It doesn't mean that we get love out of our life but it is like adding one medal to you! then other things come to you in your life.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
13 Jun 09
Right,if there is love in our life,we can see beautiful things accompanying it.And if you love somebody and marry her,then the excitement is doubled.But,if you can't marry your love,what is the fate of that love?Is it not praised by you the most?
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
27 Mar 09
See it is like that, you grow a plant and then you water it then it blossoms. So when you fall in love it is like planting a plant, then come nurturing which means caring and sharing. But a love blossoms only when it grows and that is possible only after marriage. I feel love that ends in marriage brings happiness and peace in this world.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
13 Jun 09
But what will be the fate of the love those people had but can't end up in marriage.I think,that sincere love is counted more as theirs is not degraded by the love married couples.More love married couples end up with divorce which just kills their love too.Cheers!
@youetme (351)
• China
27 Mar 09
I don't think marrige is the end of love .On the contrary marrige should be the laster of love. But so many people have a failed love and lose the hope of looking for true love. I do believe that true means lovers should respect and care each other. Love need patience and encouragement and tolerance.
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
13 Jun 09
Yes!Love should last after marriage too.Losing a love earlier shall not be a good reason to lose hope in love.A real lover can find love always with his partner.Cheers!
• Bangladesh
27 Mar 09
o dear, love is the sweetest thing in world, ya no doubt.If u work for whole month but don't get paid then?? What if the farmers work for whole year but no crops?? like that without marriage love is fruitless ,just like wastage of time. But mind it it is not obvious that one you love , all time you could get her as your own , everyone knows that we are mortal, but when question arises about completion of love ,the only solution is marriage.True love remain in heart, truly. In short life span like ours we may fail to win our love but when you will know that in a place in some where in world ,someone is waiting for you, thinking and all time praying good wishes for u, saying your name...is that not enough!!?? THAT IS ENOUGH, CAUSE THAT IS TRUE LOVE.So love your lover and don't think about the future cause it will kill your sweet time
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
13 Jun 09
Yes!the very idea that someone will be remembering be despite the success or failure of love holds love with its original scent.You are right.Love gets a new dimension with marriage and it is not the ultimate end,I think.Cheers!