will u tell everyone that u are in love?
By babyorchid
@babyorchid (1737)
China
March 27, 2009 12:05pm CST
me and my bf have a tough arguement tonight. i asked him to come to mylot. After his checking my post, he is so unhappy that i didn't mentioned him in all my discussion and replies. he thought i should tell him everything, i should tell everyone that i have a bf.
but to me, i just love is my own thing, no need to tell others. so i never tell others , only if asked that whether i do have or not. this doesn't mean i don't love him, i admit i really love him very much, but i think he is my own private things , i would not like to share with others..am i crazy in thinking so ?
and here, mylot, i only talking about my own life,(bcz he is in another nation, we can't be together in real life current) all small things, all tiny things. something i might don't tell him bcz i think no need to tell.
but am i doing the wrong thing? or i am a freaker who thinking like no need to tell others about my own love???
all mylot friends, plz help me.i need ur help urgent!
thank you for sharing
best wishes
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8 responses
@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
24 May 09
Yea you're right. Your life should be private well unless anyone asks you. He must be a jealous boyfriend hearing other woman proud to their own bf but he should also understand you at least and not think of just himself or maybe he's afraid that someone might got you..hmmm...so sweet of him if that's the reason.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
5 Apr 09
Glad to hear that you have found your love from some other country.
Did you find him through Internet? I guess yes.
As for me, I would like to share my love story here. I am a kind of person who needs to spread this news to the whole world so that I can get tons of best Wishes! Wishes are good, aren't they?
Did you find him through Internet? I guess yes.
As for me, I would like to share my love story here. I am a kind of person who needs to spread this news to the whole world so that I can get tons of best Wishes! Wishes are good, aren't they? @marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
27 Mar 09
No, I don't think you're crazy and I don't think you're wrong. But I just natuarally did. Not mylot, but I remember, me and my family and friends all went out to dinner. I had started talking to this women who would tuen out to be my partner. We wern't officially in a relationship yet, but I had a real good feeling about it, and I was telling a few people. So at this dinner, someone said Marty has something going on with him. And I told everybody "well, I'm not real sure yet, but I think I might have a girlfriend." But to each his own and it certainly does not mean you don't love him just because you don't mention him on mylot. I've mentioned Mylot to her. She doesn't expext me to tell everyone about her. In fact, I think his reaction is a little immature. That is, of course just my opinion.
@ivan2000bd (1009)
• Sweden
29 Mar 09
when i was in love i felt proud to express to all that i was in love. the feeling of that thing is outstanding.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
27 Mar 09
Nope. When you are in love what is there is hide? you have not stolen some one's precious things. You have just loved some one you felt you were attracted to. There is no offense nor should be any.
Had this been ,my case I would taken a loud speaker and announce the whole world that I am in love.
@consciousliving112 (79)
• United States
27 Mar 09
I think that international relationships are hardly even valid until you actually meet each other.
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
27 Mar 09
What you share with others, especially strangers online or in person, is what you make of it. If you don't feel the need to add it to every discussion and response then don't. They don't personally know you, they are hitting on you or asking you to marry them. They are only distance interactions that you encounter and some or most you will never talk to, write, or communicate with ever again so why should it matter that every person in the world know that you are in a relationship and that you love the person. I love my boyfriend and we aren't shy about it but we don't feel the need to make sure that everyone knows about. It's not like we are keeping it a secret from the people who matter or anyone we come in contact with on a regular basis. He is in the wrong for being upset about it. If he continues to have an issue with you not letting everyone know you might be getting into a control issue in the relationship.
