why u have to think of others wen u love ur love truely

Personally, as a girl, I think its very hard to choose love over family. If my family wasn't there for me I don't know what I would do. and Love while it can be strong doesn't provide the same things that family can. Especially to a female. I mean a husband can't give motherly advice. Think about this. If your girl and you get married and have children, and you've pushed her family away and she's abandonned them for you. Who is it that she is to turn to ask questions on raising that baby. I mean doctors of course can tell you some things, but mothers have special importance, they tell you when to not freak out with the baby and when its time to go to the ER. I think in all girls minds they fear loosing their families more because we rely onthem. They protect us. Wipe away our tears. and give us advice. Love, true and strong love can last through a little bit of trouble with the "family". You have to build a relationship with them, just like you have with your girl. They aren't going to just openly trust you, not with something as precious as their child.