Help,I am in dilemma...
By Wordsworth
@Wordsworth (13)
China
March 27, 2009 11:54pm CST
Our life is full of selection.However,today,when I am 26 years old,I must make a final selection.
Now,you are facing with a dilemma problem:A girl you love deeply,but you don't know when and
whether you can live together in the future because of some resons;A girl who is loving you deeply and waiting for you stillly.
Our friends,how should I do? And if you are in my position,how will you make your choice?
3 responses
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
If you love someone it can overcome all obstacles in life and knows no reason or boundaries whatever that may be... I believe in true and lasting love..love only comes ones in a lifetime lucky are those who have it and luckier are those who are married to the person he truly love. If its your family thats holding you back if they really love you then all they want is your happiness. good luck my friend hope you make the right decision a great decision in your life.
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@Wordsworth (13)
• China
29 Mar 09
Thank you for your advice,my friend. Maybe you are right,I want to overcome all obstacles too,but now things are more complicated than we think so ,we are now in different cities.I am persuing my Master degree,and she has to find a job in another city,I don't know whether we will be together in the futuer.
@Wordsworth (13)
• China
29 Mar 09
Thanks for your advice my friend.I want to overcome the obstacles too,but tings are more comlicated than we think.Now we are in different cities,I am persuing my master degree,and she has to find a job in another city,I don't konw when and whether we will be together.
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
You just have to listen to what your mind and your heart says. You must list all he possible consequences of your actions in order to decide properly. You should consider a lot of things in a relationship. And I suggest you go for the one you love because you are already sure for yourself. Going with the one who loves you is a gamble because you can never assure her that you will love her back. Besides it is her who loved you first so she has to wait and waiting again is a gamble. Anyway life is really full of decisions and the best thing I do when I am in the middle of dilemma is just to list everything and then judge it not by my own choice but base on the result of what I have written.
@Wordsworth (13)
• China
29 Mar 09
that is why i am in dilemma ,the one i love is in another city ,but the one love me is in my city ,i just like a man in the sea . i also know the gamble is dangerous ,but how can i again ?
@conan646646 (23)
• China
28 Mar 09
To you,you should think over one thing that career or love which is more important to you.Of course,if you can hunt for jobs in the same city or nearby,that's OK.But I don't think it has a high possibility to love one but you are far away from each other.May be I am a realist,but I just want to share my opinion with you.In this situation,you must keep cool.Ture love is invaluable.So,if in your mind that love is the king,go ahead and seek it.
I hope it will do some help.Let's make everyday colorful.
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