What are your ideal man or girl to be with?

You know, the strangest thing about this question is that of all the women that I asked this question they all told me they wanted mr right who would be intelligent, nice, who would buy flowers and treat her right and make jokes etc. The funny part is that these exact same girls you see going out with the exact opposite of what they just said..you see them going out with this jackass who doesn't even know how to dress up and on top of everything he treats her with total indifference. And is not over because the finest part of all is that these same girls say this guy is awsome. So all that mr right crap only applies when they end un in bed right? Please comment.

Listen up girls.....it is just as easy to fall in love with a man with money than a man who has no job, no car, lives with his Mom, and has no ambition to change. The reason I say this isn't to come off as a gold digger....its to warn you. A man needs to be a real man when you meet him. This means he needs to have his own already. DO NOT take a man like I have described and make a life with him. You will be "saving" him and killing yourself. We are women....it is in our nature to save and nurture. Beware of the people who will take advantage.

whether or not a perso in my opinion tonot depend on me and him together,whether or not the most important factor.i personally feel that his character and personal habits will be more valued by me ,of couse,his knowledge .educationis also very impotant. hope that we have the opportunity to become friends!!!!!!!!!!

I want to start by saying. I am a straight guy. I want a someone who depends on me but allows me to depend on them. I also want loyalty in a woman, If I was cheated on I wouldn't have it in me to take them back and I wouldn't hurt anyone that way, so I don't deserve it. I want a honest person who can tell me if their unhappy so I can do everything in my power to change that. Trust is an important thing to me in a person. I wouldn't want someone that would go tell every secret i have with their friends. Its OK to make conversation but I have a certain limit till I feel betrayed. I try to hide my emotions the best I can, but I do feel things and i want someone who can acknowledge that. Last but not least, Beauty. I will not date some that makes my skin crawl. The 1st attraction is a visual attraction, and I know its bad but i cant be with someone that doesn't respect their self enough to try. I try to dress and take care of myself, so i don't want a woman that cuts herself or paints her face white and doesn't do anything to attempt to look "presentable". I give anyone the benefit of the doubt and I don't mind weird, but there is a limit for me, and if someone wants to be with me, they have to like me enough to put in the effort that I would. After getting to know someone things change and appearance become a little less of a deal for me but you dont come on a fist date wearing flip flops, a sweater, and shorts without brushing their teeth or hair.