which is difficult

@HelScream (2822)
Philippines
March 28, 2009 6:38am CST
which is difficult loving someone you cant have or being with someone you dont love?and pls tell me why just choose one answers are greatly appreciated.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Hi, HelScream! It is being with someone that you can't have. That means that you will never get to be with this person, at all. No, not ever.. There is no need trying to. Being with someone that you don't love is difficult, but you can eventually tell this person, and then depart from them. I chose the first answer because to me, it is very difficult knowing that you can't be with the one that you love so very much. It hurts to know that you can't be with them at all.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
I agree with you cream97 I am into that situation right now we love each other and are both single but the there are other things in which is not up to me to decide. Both of us had a difficult time facing the fact that one of this days we have to leave a separate life. We have the right love but i guess not in this lifetime.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
28 Mar 09
Yes, I am feeling where you are coming from. Maybe in another lifetime you will be able to be together. But just not as of now.. Good Luck!
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
thank you cream97 all I'm wishing right now is that somehow the wind will somehow change and fate will permit us to be together we never know what tomorrow will lead us.
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• China
28 Mar 09
I think it's easier for me to be with someone I don't love. Time can change everything,Dear.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
I think you are right and I guess this would be my fate someday, they say we can teach our heart to love I really do hope they are right. I know time can change everything gongguagua but memories of our love will always remain.
• United States
21 Jun 09
Being with someone you don't love is harder.If there isn't a connection then it is a waste of time and energy and that is draining.Being with someone you don't love or even like makes everything meaningless.