is friends forever???
By thina12
@thina12 (94)
Philippines
March 28, 2009 9:11am CST
hi there!!!at this moment i do not believe that friends is forever... i have lot of friends when i was single,but when i got married all of them are cannot be reach...funny thing,but i don't know why...maybe that's part of my life..is that because i don't know how to handle it?or there is something in me?
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8 responses
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
29 Mar 09
thats normal because if we are married lots of time needed and no time for friends anymore.yes they still our friends but only time is missing and communication
@parvezs (105)
• India
29 Mar 09
Life has different phases and we need to accept it. There is a period of your time when there is no one more important to you than your parents, than we grow up and and start to spend time with our friends. And when we get married t is a complete new phase of life. Now your family should be more important to you. Make your spouse your best friend. You will not miss your friends then.
I don't know you agree with me or not. Actually this helped me come out of the situation that you are in now. Take care.And don't worry all the mylot community is your friend. At least I am. God bless.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
yes. i think that is correct. for most people i think when a friendship is lost, they thought it is damaged forever.. but for me, i believe that if people will only broaden their minds - they will be able to withstand the distance, the time they havent spoken to each other... if they meet somewhere else they might have already forgotten the things they have fought or have had a misunderstanding about... :D
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
11 Apr 09
Well, the situation has changed. Perhaps they are also busy right now and have other thing to do. Moreover, they might be thinking that you are quite busy with your family life considering that you have married already. There could be a lot of reason. But the thing is, they are still your friends. I believe that only thing that has changed is that you are not hanging together anymore. Situations changed, you are in a different status now. But this does not mean you are not friends anymore right?
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
28 Mar 09
maybe they are just giving you and your new hubby time to yourself. but friends are forever i have friends from 30 plus years
@xtine22 (200)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
I'm young and still testing friendship, but maybe friends CAN be forever. It depends on how you handle the relationship. If you want it to be forever, then you must do all you can to keep it. I bond with my friends and keep in touch with them, so I can make our friendship lasts as long as we live.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
Friends would only be forever when such friends always keep in touch. Unfortunately, such friendships are a rarity now-a-days. I mean, certain friendships like that would start from early childhood and would even last as long as they already go a family of their own. At any rate, we all tend to go else where, college would be that aspect that separates high school friends and even in college, your classmates would either change their course or you would deviate from something else and leave them behind.
For me, I have a few friends during grade school that I still keep in touch now that I have 'work.' We get to hang out whenever we have time but, time is surely a rarity too since we all have things to do and sometimes, even when we do decide to have an event to do, things just comes out of nowhere and we either have to postpone or just forget about the entire thing. What we usually do then would be just to go by a friend's house and see if they are there or not. Surprises are good and if they are at home, then that's that.
School, work, family.. there are other things.
We either make effort or just continue on with where we are..