is that hard to apologist or forgive someone.

Singapore
March 28, 2009 12:13pm CST
is that hard to apologist or forgive someone. how come every time couple get into fight seldom say sorry.. even they do you a favor they don't need to say thank you . is that a correct way?
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4 responses
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 09
i think that only selfish people who do like that.... i admit that im not always say sorry, but i always say thank you to the people who help me...
• Singapore
28 Mar 09
included your mum dad or boyfriend?
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 09
i only say sorry and thank you to all the people who respect me... yes my boyfriend is one of the people who respect and love me so much and he always help me... so if people who doesnt respect me, i wont respect them too...
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
29 Mar 09
Hi, It all depends on Ur attitude,upbringing & respect to'Values'. In relations if U cannot compromise with Ur EGO,accidents will happen. Those who are Courageous and having no ego-tail will say sorry,forgive & forget.Will remain happy & propagete PEACE! Rest will continue fighting & get themselves HURT most! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
29 Mar 09
It really depends on the relationship on how they would deal things like that. Most of the time, if the fault is really that serious, a simple apology is not enough to make things all better. On that regard, it is really hard to forgive as well as to ask for an apology, what more for the one who needs to apologize? When you do favors or ask for them, I guess it just happens to be one's habit to give recognition to the effort that one have given on providing help and assitance so, it isn't that much to say 'thank you' but still, knowing that you are appreciated matters even if its just a bit. Every small gratitude adds up which makes it matter
• China
29 Mar 09
well, that's ordinary for couples in house living. one reads, cares, loves the other, so that a "couple" was called. there are no fundamental conflicts between them. so i consider that it's allright of no apology and forgive between them. of course in our country, it is advocated to treat each other politely in couples.