what you do when you have a problem with your partner?

ummm... first i try too cool down ... let the anger subside! then i see to it that we both sit down and talk about the problem. so far we never had a problem that was not solve with in 8 hours.. im happy and proud to say that we are both open minded enough to talk and tell each other how we feel!

I lack of experience about relationship,.. The bad part is i got traumatized by my last relationship with my ex husband, and why people see a devorce woman is sefish ?? i really have no idea...

Talk about it. It's different for each individual, each has their own perspective to solve their problem, in this case problem with partner. That's why we must mention that an understanding code in relationship is not about happiness or one-side. Happiness is everyone's dream, but what I will tell my partner. Greatest happiness is provided better if we solve away problems. But many couples seem lives in their lost expectation that he/she will have the positive relationship. Which means, they only expect the positive side, but once the negative proclaims to attempt their relationship. So did each of their ego was being tested. Dizziness is a pure stuff. Some occasion may not suit well, but some timing may be applied well. Quicker is better, but must be guided and had been agreed well by both parties, either emotionally or emphatically. But some failures take some times, before even one to apology the other one. Because, as I mentioned, each people has their own perspective about how to solve it. Some took briefer, else longer. So, noticing and be smart with details, were the most important part before even you step in further for the wedding. Many marriage's individual didn't know well his/her partner, but still step into that stage.

there is no marriage has no problems.every marriage has problems but all we have to do is open each other and needs to talk then every one are happy.

I usually talk until the problem solved, i cannot go home and sleep peacefully if my problem with my partner not solve that day. So i keep talking what he have to do and he told me what i have to do whenever the clock tick at the 12.pm, before the problem solve I am not allow my partner to go home. Do you think very extreme ? LOL, hehehehe but that's my way to get my problem solved

Hi lotter look no one can solve the problem of other person.every body has to solve their problems by their own and there is no definite criteria of solving it,it depends upon the sitution and the problems itself,the method by which i solve my problem will work with yours ,thats not sure ,problems and solutions dfer from person to person and most importantly on the situation,all i can say is that every problem has a solution so dont worry be happy and one more thing ,which i think is most important ,one should never involve any third person to solve the problem between husband and wife ,it only enhances the problem ,trust me . all the best for your future and happy my lotting

It depends on the problem, if that problem can be resolve through a very calm conversation then do it that time, but when it needs time to calm down we need to give ourselves a break and to calm down our selves... Problems, trials and misunderstandings in any relationship is an additional spice in relationship, as you've said, it is just like a salt vegestable. solved problems, or fixed misunderstandings makers relationship more stronger. There's no problems or misunderstandings can't be resolve in a very calm and nice conversation, hearing both parties side and finding solutions to it are the best way to fix it all.

I will have problems with calm and do not use emotions.