Do you have friends who are kind today and the next day are not?

ya it depends on their mood one day they may be happy so they are kind one day and other day they may be sad and they are not...it completely depends from person to person... bye shekhar india

Doesn't sound like real friends to me. Real friends would never ignore or treat you that way. I wouldn't worry about those type of people at all. Surround yourself with positive, polite people and your days will be brighter!

Those aren't friends.

Well the best way is not to take them seriously. If they are good today then don't be so attached always think ahead for you know already they'd chance the next day. Also as much as possible don't get involve or interact with them. If interacting is unavoidable then just consider them as part of life and don't get too affected. Just think more of the good and sincere friends you have rather than wasting your time worrying about the unstable people you meet around.

Hi Bebs! Those kinds of friends are the kind that I don't want to bother with! We call them "fair weather friends"! You never know how they are going to act towards you! Why would you want to be friends with people who you always have to wonder how they are going to act when they see you? They make you uncomfortable and always keep you guessing like you said and make you think that you did something when you know that you didn't! You don't need those kind of people in your life! They are too negative and aren't true friends. It is different if once in awhile someone is having a bad day, but to act that way continuously is just not right!

Well I must admit that I am that kind of person in my life. I didn't used to see straight while walking and if you are coming straight to me then also it may happen that I couldn't see you at all, in this way I am not neglecting you but I can't realize that it is you. Most of the time I kind of thinking all the times! So, one day, one of my friends get really angry on me and that time onwards, he never smiled when we used to meet in the market !

Sorry to hear that but some people are really like that. Those kind of people are your friend today if you have so much money. If you don't have money, they don't know you anymore.

It is there. Few friends are like that. they will act very nice with you one day to get advantage. when they have taken what they wanted, they will behave badly.

Well, I think somethingz wrong with them and not with you. :) So, I would quit bothering about them if I were you. Stop thinking they are behaving that way coz you have done something. Then you will only feel amused with such behavior. You will start viewing them as crazy people.. that's what they are anyway! Cheers and happy Mylotting

Yes i met these kind of people but I don't really give them a damn; they are not worth my time or friendship tho although I smile or talked w/ them whenever possible just to be civil.

yeah i have experienced that many times. and so i have learned that i should not go with those kind of people. i must go only with those who take for who i am and give me respect that we all should receive from other people we meet every day. i just ditch those kind of people who just treat me like a nobody who they can ignore when ever they want to for no apparent reason.

One of my roomates always do this to me. I wanted to know the reason as well. Sometimes she is good to me, but sometimes she don't even talk to me. The thing is, we live together, i just can't understand. I didn't do anything wrong, and i really want to find somebody talk about this.

i know people like that. i think we are friends but sorry to say that i was the only one who is thinking that we are friends. anyway, as time passes, i learn from them. now i just don't think like how i think before. if a person acts like that towards me, i just don't consider him/her as a friend. just that! God Bless!

I know a lot of people who are like that, even I have mood swings sometimes. But if they treat you like that, I think that there may be something on their mind at that time. Probably something personal, too. I don't think that it's got something to do with you, though. Like what I've mentioned, I was like that, too. However, I try not to pour whatever's bugging me at the moment on other people, coz like you, they might misinterpret it.. But if your friends keep on doing that to you, Bebs08, I think you better talk to them and ask them why.. But try to do it in a friendly way, ok? Don't talk to them when you're pissed or it's not going to settle the issue.. ^_^

i have had friends who have these mood swings ,that i can understand(as they might be going through some difficulties)but to have them on regular basis would mean they are having some sort of mental problem.

Hi Bebs, that's is weird! Well, I never experienced that...Kinda unusual!