saying i love you

I value the words, I don't say it when I don't mean it.

Saying "I love you" seems to be a very serious thing to say. If it is not meant and just words flying around it loses its precious meaning. If love is that easy to throw around for someone it makes me think that it is also very easy to turn around and say "I hate you" without a thought. That just seems shallow.

You are absolutely right these are the words one should say to the person whom she or he really loves, but somehow people do use it so casually. Specially on social networking sites people send you tags of this sort, I am really surprised, how you can say or send such serious words like that.

Hello meetmehalfway! Like you, I can only say "I love you" to the person whom I know I really love. I really want to make it sure that it's love that I felt or it's like. Many people said I love you, eventhough they just met the person. I encountered a lot of it online and I told them that don't say I love you yet because we just met and that I don't love you.

When first starting a relationship, it's always hard for me to say those words. When I met my husband it took me months before I could say that to him, but when I did it was like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. It's been 10 years since we've started our life together and we don't go out the doors, hang up the phone, or go to bed with out saying that to each other.