Is jealousy healthy for a relationship???

I guess a small amount of anything isn't a bad thing; it's when it gets overpowering that it becomes a serious issue, don't you think? In my opinion, a little jealousy shows that you're aware of what others are doing & that you care about your significant other & don't want anyone else to be with them, which is normal for someone in a serious relationship. I do think that any more jealous (than just a "tad" bit) is unhealthy - as it shows a distrust in the relationship (don't you think?) By the way, welcome to myLot! (And are you from MN? As in Minnesota? If so, that's so cool! I am too - in the metro area. Hope you're enjoying the nice weather, because I hear we're supposed to get snow soon!)

I agree with you, jealousy to a certain extent is healthy. I think if there isn't some jealousy in your relationship than you don't really care for your mate. Although too much or excessive jealousy will ruin your relationship. I have been with my husband for 10 yrs and there are times when I still feel a bit of jealousy in certain moments. I wouldn't go as far as maybe say accusing your mate or talking up every time you may get jealous, I think that would really hurt your relationship. But I do agree with you saying that it makes your mate feel good that after so long you still feel some jealousy.