To be wise you should learn to observe!

Yes med, I agree. In a scientific process, if you follow through the steps: 1. Identify Problem 2. State Hypotheses 3. Test Hypotheses 4. Observe 5. Analysis or Judgement. See? That makes one intelligent. If you take time first to observe first before judging, you are like a scientist who posesses good characteristics.

Hi, med889! Yes, it is good to observe others. But one should do so when they are not being nosy! If you watch a person from a distance, you can find out many postive and negative things about a person. It will keep a persons mouth closed for a little while, and it will help them to figure out what this person may be like. I like to sit down and talk to a person, I want to see them for who they are. I want to watch their attitude. I learn more when I am observing others. It does help by observing others, I do mines far away, without them even noticing me.

HI Med, Ya you are right that observation is good. One needs to observe beacause only then he/she will be able to know about other person..But don't judge any person with single meeting or one observation.. Keep an eye on him to know him better. happy MYlotting

*raises hand* I agree!

How true. I do observe how people write here and see the way they create an impressive and intelligent topics they post. I learned a lot from observing and in a way influence me to write better discussions.

Indeed I agree with you, in observing others you learn more about yourself, you soon discover we are all creatures of the same really, the more we watch others the more we realize we are not so different after all..