the one that got away

United States
March 30, 2009 3:41pm CST
I have been thinking a lot recently about someone that I was secretly in love with. There were reasons why we could not be together. I never really tried to tell him how I felt and now I wish I could. I guess something are just not meant to be.
2 people like this
4 responses
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
10 Apr 09
You could be right you could be wrong. As you have said you have not told the person that you love such person. So no one can really tell whether it was meant to be or not. I could be wrong since I do not really know the whole story. Well, if I was in your case, I would tell that person my feeling no matter what the outcome may be. It does not need to be personally. Life what have been suggested, perhaps a letter or other forms. Just to let our and express your opinion and take away the regrets. In my case, I would have told that someone no matter what the outcome will be, I would rather say the wrong words and displease that someone rather than have let the love fade before it has even started. Best to you always!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
31 Mar 09
Time. With time you will feel that the feeling for him is going week. Sometime, the feeling does want to go week but we don't want it to be. It is the same with you. You don't want to forget him that is why you can't forget him. Just forget him and find some good friends, who knows you will a better guy now!
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I think you should write a letter expressing your feelings and saying everything you wanted to say before but could not. If circumstances still do not allow you to be with this person at least the exercise of writing the letter might help you to release your feelings and not feel that sense of regret and wonder about what might have happened.
@kirei24 (251)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Canellita is right. There are so many ways in telling how you feel about a certain person. One way is by writting a letter. Or it could be by texting him or making an email. But the best way is tell him personally. That is if you have a guts to do so. You just have to be brave and ready for rejection. You know, telling him how you feel is not easy but is it easy to just keep it? Either way you choose its you who will suffer. So think about it girl.