Don't be too sweet to someone whom you can't love.
By siomaiii
@siomaiii (238)
Philippines
March 31, 2009 2:54am CST
First thing in the morning, he'll call you to greet you. And asked you if you already had breakfast. Call you in the middle of the day to ask you if you are doing fine and ask you about your whereabouts. And then call you in the evening to ask you how was your day and wish you a good night right after. It happened for two weeks.
Sweet, isn't it? And I think it can make almost all the girls fall. He knows that you like him. But, he is confused. He is still holding on to his ex-girlfriend. He wasn't expecting that you will come into his life and get along well. And now, he doesn't even know where you are in his life. In the first place, he shouldn't have done all those things if he's not sure about his feelings. Lesson learned!
5 responses
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
31 Mar 09
agreed! It happens all the time. Especially when there is culture difference. Maybe it shows your good manner, but it shows love or like in eastern country. Girls need to be aware of this.
@syj070741 (55)
• China
31 Mar 09
i'M confused, If the guy is not sure about the feeling on you,why call you so many times a day, I think he's just not ready to accept you, he wants to forget about his ex! So,.... give him a little faith and time!By the way, some hints to show you like him!
Do you like him?
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
If you are the girl and this is what the guy is doing to you, I think its still safe never to assume that his actions meant anything until he does say something. More likely, if he is still confused, he should be decent enough not to say anything about having intentions towards you. If you can handle the current situation then just try to ignore his sweet actions and take it as something ordinary. But if it really affects you, then maybe you should tell him to stop what he is doing. He may not realize it but he is playing with your emotions so that he can cover up what he is feeling. He shouldn't be doing that to you or to any girl because he will end up hurting them if it turns out that he doesn't intend to get serious with the relationship
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
31 Mar 09
but sometimes we cant avoid this things.we just human being has heart and mind to fall inlove that we cant love hehehe.well some guys they take it personaly even its a nature that i am sweet but they take it personaly thta he feels like i am flirting
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
I believe he is still in the stage of denial. He still cannot accept that her girlfriend is gone. Now he manifest his love through displacement in the person of you. Give him time. Don't be in despair. he come to his senses soon.maybe at this time just give your support.
