Why some of us they think they are not worthy
By patzel88
@patzel88 (3310)
Philippines
March 31, 2009 3:03am CST
Why there are lots of us living in the world thinking that they are not worthy to be a part of, I have encounter a person who she believe that she is a perfect wife to her husband and she never realize or even think that her husband was tempted to get into a relationship with a woman. until she knew it for more than 12 years.
Now the problem in the family begun to be a nightmare to them because she is not a person that she easily forgive and forget, everyday in their life becoming worse and we tried to explain to her that we could not predict the life we have until we surrender our life to god, but she answered that she now never believe in god. And she never listens to our words because she also said that she always gave advises to the people, why should she listen to us.
What do you think is the best way to say to her that she will listen to us because we try to convince her to attend a bible study but she always refuses us.
5 responses
@kassdaw (591)
• United States
31 Mar 09
So what you are saying is that her entire life will be going better by simply believing in your god? Because we all know that nothing bad ever happens to believers.. Yeah right. So what if she doesn't want to attend a bible study. So what if she doesn't believe in a god or better yet, your god? Does it matter? Does it effect you that much, or are you just so desperate to "show people the way" (convert) them that you would force religion on your own friend?
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Yes i am so desperate because i am one of her family and everyday that we have, theres always a fight with her husband even we have seen the changes of her husband but she said that it is not enough because the pain she have right now still fresh.
I dont really understand her side because its been 2 years ago when her husband told to her but she never stop asking the woman who was involve. She also ask what was the exact time, date, and month. And every day we always hear that words which it gets irritating to my ears.
@Gladys22 (416)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
that's we call Lifes..this time she are not opened to listening about
what we say for her because she are suffering for more dispression
we cannot blamed this woman cause maybe she is tired for her situation
she forget that God is there.. It's hard we know Right??
for almost been 12 years she love this Family but suddenly their lifes changes
because of his Husband went wrong..she is more on negatives towards her Future.
but you can help her. through Prayer.. we can pray for her to be strong and to look for our God. and God will listening to our Prayer.
Thank you for your discussion.. Happy my lotting!!!! God Bless!!!
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
If she never really did anything wrong that caused her husband to cheat on her then I think that it would be really hard to make her feel better. If she thought that she was the perfect wife, it could be because she tried her best to make her husband happy and her children well cared for. Anyone who did their best and then realize that their efforts weren't appreciated wouldn't be happy.
I think that although she does need to be with God, forcing her to go to Bible studies is the best way. If she wasn't even half-willing to go then she'd just sulk and feel all bitter. I think it is first important to assure her that she is a good person and that if the problem really isn't her fault, then she shouldn't be blaming herself.
Thanks for the response on my discussion!
@laedyan (189)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Hi there patzel88. I'm not that sure but i think your friend doesn't want to fail. I guess she is the type of person who believes in herself so much that she forgot to listen also or take advices from other persons. Its better if you'll allow her to think things over and just be there for her. Someday, she will realize that she's not alone and she can fight life and problems with her friends. You already did your best to advice her. Pray also that she'll be enlightened and will have the courage to go on. Happy mylotting.
