Trust does not need any condition
By vivianchen
@vivianchen (2646)
China
March 31, 2009 5:10am CST
Hello, everyone! Hope you have a good weekend! Just got back from my class, it's training class, i called it "self-improvement". This is a great class, i learn one thing" trust does not need any condition"!
Most of the time in our life, we have our own formal of trust, i trust you, you have to trust me, because i trust you, you need to lent your money to me, becasue i trust you, you need to be my best friend, you can't betray me, you have to always be my best friend! What a selfish thought. Trust is nothing to do with others, it's all about you! Just you. You trust people, that doesn't mean that you have to use that to trade something, just trust them. Don't ever try to use the trust you have with people to do bad things.
Not sure if i explain clearly, just want to share what i learn from the class. Wish you all the best today!
Viv
4 responses
@tenchi18ph (176)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Yeah your right, when you give your trust to others, it should be without any conditions attached. This is to prove that you trust that person without any hesitation. But I must say that earning a trust is a very difficult process. Because most of the time, you have to do a favor for the recipient in order to gain their trust to you. In this time, it is difficult to trust a person you most likely don't know. And only the persons you know most such as your friends, relatives are the one you can trust of. Surely, if you gain trust of that person, that person will never expect any conditions from you.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Thanks for sharing! Ideally, trust does not need any condition. But nowadays, it is hard to give your trust. A lot of people are deceptive to the point of taking advantage to other people's vulnerability. A piece of advice, be careful on whom you give your trust to. God bless you all!
@sysdexlicwriter (1619)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I agree with you one-hundred percent. I had a friend who once told me that she believed friendship should be like a tennis game. You hit the ball back and forth. When one person starts grabbing the ball (taking advantage) the game is over. I like to think of friendship as a giving game. It does need to be balanced, though. If one person does all the giving and the other all the taking it just turns into a mess. It must always be balanced. I hope I was able to say this clearly.
