Did anyone get your first love back?

You can fall in love again. The thing that I noticed in "The Notebook" is that they loved each other no matter what. People are deceived into thinking that romance and then marriage is the end of the story. In marriage the story just begins. So many give up when they see what they really married. None of us are perfect and there is nothing that will kill love faster than a person who believes that another is perfect and then as the relationship unfolds the perfect person has a lot of stress put on them to live up to that image. There is no such thing. True love sees the imperfect and still loves the individual no matter what. Are you in love with who she really is, flaws and all, or are you in love with the image you have put in your mind? God bless you in this.

I remember my first love. We are very good friends now though we got seperated for one year being together. I don't regret at all. I have found someone just after the breakup and I came to understand that the one with whom I am right now is the one I really wanted to be with. So this is all part of life. College days and college love had to come to an end.

We can definitely fall in love again but it is not advisable to do so with a past love. The relationship would have broken up for some reason and to get back into it would be to relive all those miserable moments again. Your gf was probably just feeling lonely and so contacted you again-it helps to be among familiar thinsg when you are feeling low. But that feeling passes too and then you are back to where you started. My advice is that you can be friends with an ex but dont look to start a relationship again.

i stil think of my first boyfriend, he had been the greatest of all. he gave me every care i have ever dreamt of, every gift i ever hope for , every love i have expected. however, many things must fall into place, but did not so we ended up not-together but no regrets at least in every way, he will still be a part of my life, and me, a part of his life.

Well am lucky to have my love for ever and ever strong. Its no other love.

Uhmm. Not yet. But I do believe that if you really meant for each other. It will happen. No matter what happen it will always back, if you really meant to be.

THat's good. I can't remember my first love. :-(

i'm not with my first love anymore. we were together for almost two years, and have been broken up for another two. we are still good friends and talk relatively often, but it's difficult because we are both in relationships and because he moved out-of-state. if we end up together again, i'm sure that our relationship would be great, as we broke up because of the distance that came, not any problems in our relationship. there is a person out there for me that i'm supposed to be with permanently, and i'll end up with him, whether it is my first love, my current boyfriend, or a completely different man. you will find who you're destined to be with, as well. i also love that movie. i have not read the book, but i've heard it's very good.