stepmom

Have you talked to your Father privately about this? Does he know what's going on? It's not right when a stepmother comes into the picture and then proceeds to treat the kids badly. If you have talked to him and you haven't gotten anywhere then talk to your Mom if possible if not, then maybe an Aunt or Uncle. You need to tell someone. People should not be getting away with treating stepkids bad no matter what the age.

Is there a slight chance that you are being overly sensitive about how she reacts to you? If not, have you spoken to your father about it? I know its a difficult thing to do, but try not to take it personally. I believe this is a fairly common problem, its ashame its that way. I believe if you love the man the way you should, you love his children too, or atleast respect them. I wish you the best of luck with your situation, and please try not to let her rudeness or selfishness blur who you really are.

I am sorry. Can you try to make peace with your stepmom, talk to your dad, go live with your mother, or go and live with another relative like an aunt or uncle? Is it possible to be busy enough to stay away most of the time?