what do you think makes a person "sexy"?

China
March 31, 2009 12:30pm CST
Do you think "sexiness" is inborn or can be cultivated? is it solely due to the appeal of the human body or does it have any connections with all the welthiness/social status of the person in question? Do you think people who are sexy tend to have the upperhand in a relationship at work? Do you think "sexiness" is a universal value?
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maezee
@maezee (41988)
• United States
31 Mar 09
I don't think it's a universal value. Different cultures generally have different standards for "sexy" (or even just "beautiful"). For example, the Jenna Jameson-type American fantasy is probably not who people in India think is "sexy". Not only is sexy about LOOKS, but I think it's about personality and how they hold themselves. Confidence usually equals sexy, wouldn't you agree? I have plenty of "cute" guy friends who aren't "sexy" because they lack that type of confidence. Anyone can have confidence - being poor, rich, middle-class, whatever.