Does it really matter to keep your virginity until you get married?

it really depends on what your beliefs are.. if, for you, loving that person means giving your all, then give it without condition. but if you have fear with god and can't afford to commit a sin, then don't. two person's relationship shouldnt rely purely on that issue. if youre a guy and you really love the girl, you should wait until she's ready and believe me, it's worth the wait. sometimes, it wouldnt be easy for a guy to let go of the girl that he waited for so long to be his. though, some really dont care if they were the first or not.. what's important is you are the last and the girl belongs to you until you or she die. if we will all beleive that virginity is a big issue in getting married, then guys must marry the nuns! and girls marry the priests! and would come to a situation that those who are no longer virgins are not worth marrying.. LOVE, RESPECT, HONESTY and COMMUNICATION are the secret of a happy relationship. hope i make sense here...

Well, for people that keep the sacrament of marriage, yes it is important. But I don't think most people will keep that either. I believe that making out is one of the basic needs of human. There will come a time that we feel that we need it and most of the time we have to do it and then we can't wait for marriage anymore.

hey..it purely depends on u, the person in question..!! there is nothing aclled right or wrong..it is wat we think it is..!! u want to give it up for a relationship or u want to see wat is it before marriage then one can go for it or any other reason..otherwise one can wait for time of marriage to have it.. hope i answered ur question.. happy mylotting..

for me no since i am a man haha, but for my fiance, it matters a lot. and i respect her intuition about that matter. i didn't force her to do it since then after she said about it. for women, virginity should matter a lot for them.

I don't think anyone can answer that question for anybody else we're all different and it's too much of a big deal to let someone else make the decision for you. I personally believe you should test drive the car before you buy it. However i do think you should be in a relationship with someone who you really care about and who cares about you. I think age is a big factor too I believe you should wait untill you're emotionally ready and can trust that the person you're with is'nt only out for one thing.

yes.he/she should not cheat other patner and themselves also.what if after marraige one of the patner came to know that other has lost virginity to someone else i dont think many people can take this that easily.