how often do you want to receive calls from your lover in a day?
By mizstress
@mizstress (719)
Philippines
April 1, 2009 12:24am CST
i know it is sweet if your lover calls you.. we feel extra special with this kind of gesture..
do you like to receive calls from your lover? how often should you call your lover in a day?
survey says guys like to receive calls from their girlfriend/ wife in maximum of 4-5 calls per day. more than that, they get annoyed with your calls.
for me, i dont usually call my boyfriend, but i do text him. but i dont text him hourly like asking him where he is or what his up to.. i call him twice a week and 5-10 texts on regular days if were both working and not able to meet. i do that so we have a lot of things to talk about whenever we meet again! hehehe
do you get annoyed/suffocated if your lover calls you very often?
hope to hear from you..
happy mylotting!!
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37 responses
@xhaylea (361)
•
1 Apr 09
Well i don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but when i did it felt really good recieving calls and texts off him, it made me get butterflies in my tummy, and it just made me feel all loved and special, it was usually atleast once a day when he called me, and he would send lots of texts to me :) I'm single at the moment, and theres someone who i like who keeps sending me texts and talks to me on messenger, he's soo sweet! x
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@mimimeow (295)
• Hong Kong
1 Apr 09
2-3 times a week.......I don't have so many things to say to him and we have msn nowadays. Is that strange? We've been like that for 4 years now and we don't see each other often as we are in different countries as well.
I can never stand frequent phone calls. It doesn't suffocated me. It's just annoying.
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
thrice or four times a day will be enough. when she was still around, she would call me in the morning before we go for work/training, another call in the afternoon during our lunch breaks, and twice in the evening. her last calls would always before we call it a day, before both of us go to bed.
i really missed it a lot and she as well.
it a great feeling when someone is calling you, knowing how did your day went, is everything alright and some words of encouragement and endearment.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
she is a sweet girl! was she always the one to call? or you also call her?
thanks for the response!!
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
she's the one who calls me, because her phone is on a postpaid plan and have lots of free calls hahaha
@ratcliffe07 (128)
• United States
1 Apr 09
i get a call once a month when i ask for it. He lives long distance from me. I would like a call once a week at least...or every couple of days. How would you feel with call once a month?
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
is call your only means of communication? if it is.. i will feel sad, lonely and for sure i terribly miss him!! i dont think my day would be complete if i wont hear from him..
thanks for the response!
@ratcliffe07 (128)
• United States
1 Apr 09
we get to talk on im and things like that, but since i don't get to see him, i feel more connected with him like he is not so far away.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
oh well, they all say keeping a long distance relationship needs a lot of sacrifices.. hang in there girl.. soon you two will meet and all your sacrifices and longing will change into happiness and more loving!!
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
1 Apr 09
Who are these guys who want to receive even as many as 4 calls? I don't know any men who want to talk to their partner that much and definitely not their mother that much unless there is something urgent happening.
You are lucky to hear from most guys once a day, lol and they don't necessary want you to call more than that. I guess it depends on where people are in their relationship and how they feel when they are away from their partner.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I'm not sure what you're asking. I am not a guy and I didn't mention my own calling habits.
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 09
when my boyfriend work in his old workplace, we always on the phone atleast bout 4 hours (thats minimum...) and always send messages bout 200 messages everyday,,,,
but now since he got back to his town (7 hours by train) and got a new job, its very hard to call him or receive phone calls from him, and even got messages from him...
now everyday i only got few messages from him, and if im lucky he calls me...
every time he calls me i always say "hey im lucky today cos u call me...!"
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
just be more understanding girl! he still adjusting to his new work and his long travel time. 7 hours traveling is tiring!!
thanks for the response!!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
its a guy thing! they cant seem to let go of their friends..
@myralmedo (815)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
hi there :)
this is so funny, it makes me reminisce the old days LOL hehe :D
when dada/hubby and i were in the stage of "tweetums" and all that bf-gf stage hihi, he used to call me i think 5-9 times in a day (not to mention those calls have long hours 3-4 hours?:D) we have here the unlicall (unlimited call) of SUN telecom network since we are far from each other south and north distance, our main communication is thru phone calls (we already have work that time and if it's my rest day that's the time that we will have a date or meet up- it is once a week duh?! hehe :D) and am the one who was pissed off and irritated when it comes to his calls sometimes office hours and am so busy at my work loads he will just call me up just to say if i have eaten or something (OA of being miss me LOL) we do send text messages also (actually he's so paranoid that time and kinda have a "possesive" attitude hihi but now i can say that he lessens that kind of level... *sigh*)
and time changes no we are together no more calls (i mean there's still but not that often like before :D) just 2-5 messages in a day (especially if he will fetch me super duper lots of messages just to say he's donwstairs and waiting for so long, have 3 turns coz traffic aid doesn't want him to park for a second LOL :D) but those text messages are still "tweetums" ones haha, kinda corny but it makes me "kilig"/ sweet (he's good in that LOL hehe)
we almost see each other everyday, everynight so that's it ;)
thanks!:)
happy myLotting!;)
Godabless!0=)
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
i therefore conclude that boys dont have long patience when it comse to waiting!! LOL!!
how i wish i can use sun network but our house has signal for smart only.. haaay!!
thanks for the response..
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 09
Hello mizstress,
I love if my husband always call me but of course if it is too many times, I feel 'suffocated' too You have a good reason why you don't call your boyfriend too often - at least, when you meet, you have a lot of stuff to share with each other. The truth about my husband and I... we don't really call each other too often nowadays... Maybe once during office hours and if it is really necessary, we use yahoo messenger to send message or just plain text. But when ever we have an argument which is not solved, oh, yes....we try to keep in touch with each other until the problem resolved
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
yeah! thanks to internet, its cheaper to communicate with other. and i dont call him during work hours coz using of mobile phone is not allowed there.. hehehe
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@dio123 (1788)
• India
1 Apr 09
you both are very understanding couple as I can guess by your message here and it is good not to disturb your partner very often by just giving him or her a call unnecessarily and annoying him or her all the time it will be better to give some space to your partner also
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
hey dio123!!
yeah! we both dont want to be disturb at work so dont often call each other.. most of the time he calls me just to say he will pick me up after work..
thanks for being supportive to my discussions!! mwaah! hehehe
@shiena888 (72)
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1 Apr 09
i used to see him and talk to him everyday for long hours.....now things are not so great....im having a hard time adjusting that i only got to talk to him 15 mins a day....and dont see him as much...its really hard sometimes....cos im used to be with him...like every single moment....i know this is a start of something that is not good....and you already know the end result....i already expected it....
@shiena888 (72)
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2 Apr 09
but if the guy doesnt want to be around you...would you still fight for it....
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
so sad.. but dont give up! if you really love him, fight for that love.. and you really have to adjust to your new situation.
keep your faith up!!
thanks for responding..
@GemmaR (8517)
•
1 Apr 09
I quite like to talk to him twice.
Once when I get home after a busy day, and once at night before I go to sleep. We will also text at various points in the day, normally about 15-20 text messages each way in a day.
That is of course on the days we don't see each other. We spend a lot of time together, and when we both have a day off at the same time, we will get up late and lounge around all day, then go out/go for a meal in the afternoon/evening.
We do spend an awful lot of time together!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
we also do that on our day off! we stay at bed til afternoon, then movie marathon the whole day!!
i miss those days!! hehehe
thanks for the response!
@shiwangipeswani (613)
• India
1 Apr 09
Hi lotter
no dear i dont get even a single call now as my lover is now turned into my hubby from last 13 years,and after so many years of marriage,no phone calls areleft to be called.:)
happy my lotting
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
no phone calls? is your hubby always with you??
13 yrs being marriage!! i wish you both a longer years to live together!!
thanks for the response!
@pavan4568 (122)
• India
2 Apr 09
Usually my wife calls me once or twice a day and i do make it a habbit to call her atleast once and the maximum she/me called is 4 times a day and beyond that she never tries to call me because she understands the busy life at my work and some times if i am busy and when she calls me, i usually disconnect and call her later or message her.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
does your wife get offended sometimes if you disconnect her calls?
@SHEKHAR3009 (162)
• India
2 Apr 09
hi
we should get atleast 20 calls per day. it depends how affordable you are like
u have online facility u can speak unlimited...we can make unlimited free calls
on net. they charge a minimum amount..they say the more kisses per day the more
active you are..luv and kisses should be flowing to keep ur honey happy and pleased
forever...you shouldnt let him down....
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
20 calls per day? thats equivalent to a lot of kisses!! hehehe your a lucky guy!! LOL
thanks for responding!!
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
my husband is working abroad and he's calling me 4-5times a day..sometimes i get annoyed because if i didn't received his call, because i'm out of the house with our baby, he always get angry.. hayz..
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
maybe he miss you both thats why he often call.. it not easy working far from your family..
thanks for the response!
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I mostly don't receive, we talk on email when he is at work because we are living together now. I sometimes call him after work if he doesn't show up on time because I worry what happen.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
thats nice. i also talk with my boyfriend thru e-mail/chat. and i have this habit of saving the our conversation after.. hehehe
thanks for the response!
@hustonphotography (569)
• United States
1 Apr 09
My husband calls anywhere from 3 to 5 times a day and I also call him. I work during the day and he takes care of our little girl. I don't mind. I love hearing from him. It reminds me that I have a wonderful support system at home full of love. I enjoy it.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
what a sweet family you have!! stay sweet..
thanks for the response!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
i also often used texting rather than calls coz its a lot cheaper.. but sometimes, if i super miss him, i cant help but to call him! just to hear his voice!! hehehe
thanks for the response!!
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
1 Apr 09
Well I speak to my husband a couple of times a day..some of the times he calls me other times I call him. We are never checking up on each other.. We have 2 kids so he calls to see how they are doing or just to say he misses me.. There are somedays we dont call each other at all and I miss talking to him on those days
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
is your husband working abroad? i think hearing from you and your kids give him energy to work well even though he is far from his family..
thanks for the response!
@parvezs (105)
• India
1 Apr 09
My lover is my Wife, she is my best friend. Whenever I am out I sms or call her and take her views in everything I do. So like this we are full day in contact either through smses or through calls. She does the same whenever I am at office. We are in constant touch with each other daily. No single day goes different. When a day goes without contact that's the most boring and long day for both of us. So you can say more than 4-5 calls in a day of few minutes and around 20 smses daily is my contact daily from my lover, my Wife.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
youre sweet! i hope my future husband will be like you!!
thanks for the response!!