Is it necessary for us to stay with friend all the time?
@yueguangzhuzhu (27)
China
April 1, 2009 6:24am CST
My friends always like to stay with me whatever we do .
But I don't like this very much .
I think we both have our things respectively.So it is necessary for us to have our private time .Do you agree with me ? What's your opinion?
10 responses
@sagapo121845 (277)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
I totally agree with you.Thats even my problem too.!My friends just get easily fell bad whenever I don't hang out with them.I mean,why cant they understand it?Right?I think they should be on their own too and they also have to do things alone.Friends are really great,but sometimes you have to explain that theyre not needed on some things.
@wxo200345 (101)
• China
3 Apr 09
people should have a tolerant heart to his/her friends,you seems to be a little annoy with your friends. i advice you can communicate with each other avoid hurting the friendship
@Emceeric (70)
• United States
7 Apr 09
Well,for me it's uncomfortable.Don't hesitate to talk with your friends about the things you wanted to do by your own or needs privacy.My point is you will not try to insult them but try to talk with them to understand the things that you wanted to be alone sometime.It's annoying you know! it's like you wanted to create some reasons just to avoid them but it's not right to do that.I mean you have your own life c'mon! talk to him frankly!
Hope that helps..
@vheilugto (149)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
YEAH RIGHT! YOU HAVE TO SEP SOME TIME. MAYBE YOUR FRIEND IS A GAY OR A LES? LOLZ/ / KIDDING! BUT ITS NOT GOOD TO BE ALWAYS LIKE THAT. YEAH KNOW?! TRY TO TALK TO HIM/HER. EXPLAIN WHAT THE SITUATION IS. if she'he did not understand that. then, he/she's not a truly friend. .
@wxo200345 (101)
• China
3 Apr 09
to my point of views ,the real friend is possible not the most intimate one,but certainly the one who respect you include your hobbies,your views,your private room and so on . so if one still stay with you in the situation you have shown some unpatience,it can conclude that he doesn't respect you ,so the friendship is hard to maintain,because no one want to own a friend who always ingnores partner's feelings.
@luckyyoo182 (4)
• United States
3 Apr 09
It is really important to maintain your own private time. I find it difficult to be around my friends 24/7. I love my friends and it's important to have supportive friends that you enjoy spending time with, but at the same time if you don't ever have your own space problems can develop. I have noticed in the past, if I am around one person all the time it gets annoying. Every so often I have to take a bit of time to myself and just do my own thing.
@titisjatmiko (26)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 09
Yes i agree with you. We have our own privacy, so we don't have to go anywhere, doing anything with our friend. Sometimes we need to stay together with our friends, but not always. If we always stay with our friend we may cause uncomfortable situation. We must respect ourself and our friends privacy.
@Jason_king (14)
• China
1 Apr 09
Yes,I agree with you,everyone has their own private things,and sometimes it is not good to stay with our friends all time.Maybe at the beginning,your friend think that you are really a good friend who is worth to make ,but after many times,they will think that you are annoyed.
So I think everyone will have that feeling.So don't always stay with your friends whatever they do and wherever they go.
@net_ankit (643)
• India
1 Apr 09
Ya you are right, Everybody loves their Privacy.
It is not wrong that your Friend stay with you whatever you do, because it is very good they loves you they support you. othervise both of you can decide that you will meet at fixed time in a day.
this is the solution.
@plovepforever (35)
• China
1 Apr 09
yes,i rather agree with you.in my point of view everyone should have his/or her private time.I think the persons always stay around their friends just like you discribed may lose of confidence and self-relience.so we'd better give them hands to help them establish confidence and make them become independent.