what have i done!!!!!!!

For me, if just between the two of you, you don't need to tell you're friend. If you tell him, things may get worst. Just consult the girl that this event will never happen again..Stay away from her..^_^

damn my friend you are in some deep stuff. well if you two decide what to do about this, either keep it between you two. but if you do tell him you are looking at he might not be your friend anymore, and them breaking up. so you need to talk to her, and see if it would be better to keep this secert or not or risk it all

I've read some of the other responses and so now I'll add mine to the pile. I'd tell your friend the truth. You may lose a friend but then again you may not. The fact is that if his g/f goes to him first and tells him, it's going to look even worse for you. Also it would be your word against hers as to who started what...the fact that you hid it from him would make you look in the wrong. You owe it to your friend to be honest about it and to let him know what kind of g/f he has. I hope you don't lose your friend but it's better to be honest about it otherwise your going to constantly worry about him finding out. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

well A) you shouldnt be high, and B) you have just wrecked not only your friendship with your mate but you have also wrecked their relationship with each other. Own up and take the punishment no matter what it is.

This is an aweful thing and bad situation to be in. I know the right and legit thing would be to tell your friend but I must say if this happened to me I would dump you both. So if you do choose to be honest you need to be ready for the consequences of these actions. I know from what you said it was probably an accident but your friend is still going to hurt about it. But on the other hand it will be worse if your frind finds out from someone else other than you. It will be a lot worse. Or you can not tell your friend and he might not find out but you will feel guilty. Also it will be very awkward between you and your friends GF.

I would suggest telling your friend, that is the responsible thing to do. It will be hard and your friend will probably be very mad, but you will feel guilty until then. It may help your friend to use the excuse that you were drunk/high, so be sure to tell the story exactly how it is. Don't try to make it seem any worse or better. As for the situation with her, I'd ask her about it. Chances may be she wants to be with you more than with her boyfriend, or at least realized she didn't like her boyfriend that much. If not, she may want you not to tell her boyfriend, which you should decide which one you should follow. It would be very important for you to talk to her and see her side of the story.

Let me tell you - its not your fault so dont care about it secondly because you dont care she may repeat it and you will loose your friend, his trust and your reputation. so stay away from her......

wow..I do know what to say.. It is better to be honest but if this will lead to fighting, I guess it is better for you to just stay away from his girl and never allow yourself to be tempted again!

Wow,Hmmmm. How close are your friend and his girlfriend?..How close are you to this friend?...Do you guys have a bros before hoes kinda relationship or not so much?... I think you should tell him.. It will be better if you tell him now then keep it from him for sometime and behiding it you know. He might respect you more for telling him. You never know this chick could get mad at you one day and out of spite tell her boyfriend and then really put the blame on you saying you made the first move... Well,whatever you decide Best of luck to ya:)...

I don't think I would say a word man. As long as she is in agreement with you, he never has to know...

Damn man that is something you just don't do! You need to go and talk to that girl, and decide together if you want to tell him. I suggest you to keep it to your self and still stay his friend. I can't imagin how he will react if he knew the truth about you two. I hope things work out for you.

This is such a difficult thing to do. Case #1 You tell your friend. Either he gets mad at you or her or both. Depending on your friendship, you may lose him as a friend all together. If he and her have been with each other for awhile and she did that to him they should not be together. It is harder for a man to stop something when a female has taken such provactive e actions toward a man. You risk losing your best friend over this but it is the better way to go. case #2 You say nothing. She tells him he gets mad at you for not saying anything. Here again you risk losing your friend because you were not honest with plus the story maybe switched around and not the whole truth was told. Case #3 Neither one of you say anything and never mess with each other again. You will have this on your mind constantly and feel horrible and the friendship will never be the same again. I go with #1. It will be hard. The hardest thing ever that you do but you have to be honest with him.

Do not regret what has happened. Leave and do not repeat again. I think you should be careful in submitting it to your friend. Return to the woman you regret it and you show that you very appreciate their relationship. If you are rough on the women's action, I fear there will be information that is not true of the women. You will be lose good friend. Good name and reputation wil be bad. Thanks

Don't worry! you can explain it to your friend I believe your friend can excuse you

A real friend wouldn't do that. If you did it once you will do t again, well I hope not! Are you going to tell you friend you did this? Maybe he will forgive you maybe he won't? I hope he does forgive you, but he will never trust you anymore with her. sorry to say but that is probaly what will happen, I hope you all don't break-up friend-ship.

Sorry to say this but I think you are in a thick soup right now. I hope none of your friend is at myLot, otherwise he would come to know about it too. I advice you first talk about it with your friend's girl and request her never, ever to tell it to your friend. Some things are always good when kept secret, that's my advice to you. P.S.:That reminds me of a movie called "My Best Friend's Girl"

I say talk to the girl.. It could have been possible that she thought you were her man if you all were tipsy. But talk to her see what she wants to do because she is involved too.

Keep it as a secret between you and your friends' girlfriend. Just leave as far as his girl.

Dear friend,I think what you have done is wrong as she is your friends girl friend.It is an emotional crime.You should have handeled her carefully by telling her that whatever she is doing is not correct as just for satisfaction you she had killed her boyfriends feelings.Any way in future try avoid such things as our country has its own culture.Be a good friend.Now go and tell your friend the truth only then you can see thru his eyes.

OH MY GOD!How did you do that... Anyway,its not your fault.For me its just an accident,. Maybe the girl likes you,hmmm very hard situation. But if i were you,i will tell the truth to your friend.