For the girls....

I had an ex-boyfriend for three years and its been ten years already since we broke up because of third party on my side. I know this sounds so unfair to the father of my kids but really that ex presence is with me almost everyday. i am not sure if i am still in love with him or i am just having a remorse for what i did to him 10 years ago. Or because the father of my kids is completely not my match. But am trying love this man again for the sake of our kids.

My exes are my exes for a reason. I have a wonderful husband now though and we're known each other since childhood. Hopefully nothing will ever happen there.

I feel nothing about my ex now, he was a mean cheater and I deleted his file in my memory. Of course, there're still some traces, for example what we did together, but I think about them as events rather than my own experiences, i.e just like the scences in a movie that I've watched, but have not played any role.

Around about two months ago, my year and a half relationship ended. I'm still completely not over it. As one of the women above said, naturally, i am also jealous at the fact he is picking up drunk women and taking them home. You miss the good parts, but usually we're rather thankful for the bad parts being gone. From time to time i keep wishing he was still in a relationship with me, but at the end of the day, theres nothing i can do about it is there. However as for other relationships, i don't think i'd much miss his hugs / kisses etc.

I am dating someone now after two other relationships and I have to admit I just found out one man I dated is in a relationship and I got very jealous because it wasn't me and I wasin love with him a great deal, and I guess to an extent I am still very much in love with him. In my opinion when you love someone it will never go a way even if you are with someone new.

i don't missed my ex cause it already fade away in my memories though haved a little but it's not enough by feeling i miss him but it's not. i realize only infatuation i feel for him not love. me and my ex- bf didn't have a kiss before only hug lol.

I don't miss my ex-boyfriends neither their kisses or what so ever. I don't even think of them these days though I have one ex-bf (e separated 9 years ago) who was stalking me last year over the phone... he's telling me that he misses me blah, blah, blah but I don't believe him so I change my mobile number. When a relationship is over, its really over for me and there's no turning back. Life goes on so we have to move on in the same time. What matters to me most is my current bf and nobody else

hmmm.my current bf is my firs everything. :) but i've had exes before him. But no kiss, no hugs, sweet moments - well.. nothing like that since i was too young, i mean, i dont get out because i was embarrassed that someone will see me in the mall with someone. lol. so.. most of the memories are just at text and at school. nothing big to share. Oh.. there was this one time, where a former bf cheated on me and the girl he two timed me with went into our classroom to have a "discussion" with me. and i just said, "He's all yours, he's not that interesting anyway" LOL.. i was 17 then.. :)

hey,whatever you did and whenever there was somwthing in your mind,forget it! all the moment related to you and your x-boyfriend had passed. why people like to look back? maybe i am too serious not to look back to one's old memories. indeed,there is happy time we need to think of,but you can choose.if you have a boy friend,just put yourself into his shoes,how would he think of you if you still missing your x-boyfriend. it unfair!and you do not want him to think of his x-girlfriend while together with you,right?so,i take it for granted that if he becomes your x-boyfriend,then actually let go!

It depends on how long you have been in a relationship.In my case,i have to forget all of the memories we had shared,because im married now.

Hi Angel, I think i will still missed the sweet moments that i had with my X-BF, sometimes i even compare the one i loved one with my X when we first be together, but as time goes back, slowly and slowing, i am not thinking of my X that much, sometimes, the sweet moments or the funny things wills still rise in my brain, but i know, he is not mine anymore, i got to let go. So, that's about my story.

hi there, i had 3 exes, the first is someone my friends ask me to say yes,without my friends, he will never be my first, im just infatuated with him, thats all. so i dont miss him at all. the second? well, he is my first love, but what do you know? i still felt bitter because he's a certified womanizer, and i thought that time i was his only girl, but no, there's another one. and i hate him for that, that's all i can remember about him.by the way, when i learned that he's seing that other girl i broke up with him already,love is not enough when my trust is broken. the third? he makes me feel special and the marrying kind, i felt that he loves me so much, but then, he is asking for something i can't give coz i was too young then,well until now, im still young for those things. and that's the reason why i broke up with him.he's demanding and it suffocates me, until i realized, im not inlove with him anymore. i dont miss my exes at all, i realized im just infatuated with them. im in a relationship where in, i love him so much, the love i have for him is enough for me to not miss my exes.